# Jealousy

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by forereel (Just posting.) on Monday, 17-Nov-2008 13:02:15

Hello all zone members. I am posting this as an appology and also for information purposes. I never speak about my personal life here, but I have been moved to do so now.
I am a single man, but separated from my wife and have been for a long time. My laziness in not getting legal divorce is my problem I am told, but I say not. I say this because no matter what your legal status is jealousy is real. I started a lovely relationship with a lady and as blind people we use this beast of a computer to communicate. She told me very private and personal details and I did the same. Some of her personal details were posted here, and i see they are removed. I did not post this and I am the victum of computer hacking. Of course it has been denighed, but the damage has been done. I warned the lady this might happen and i took what I felt were proper security measures to prevent it, but I was out smarted. I did not go far enough. I am not the police and have nothing on my computer anyone would care to see, but jealousy is powerful and has cost me a beautiful relationship. A remote key logger was installed on my machine and everything I send or receive goes straight to the jealous person. Now I can not say if that relationship would have been lasting, but it would have sure been nice to have had it in peace. I publicly also appologize to the lady in question even though I did warn her and she agreed the risk was worth it, I feel responsible for her fear. If I thought she was not strong enough to stand such a jealousy attack I would not have allowed the relationship to go as far as it did. I want her trust back and the pleasure we were sharing of course, but it's lost.
I don't have a solutionwhat should have been done to prevent jealousy from killing a relationship, but I am here to say it is powerful. The couple that must stand against it really need my 4 things sharing, giving, love, and trust. If you do not have these I believe you can not withstand it. I'll not be able to read your replies for a while, because I am needing to close all accounts to protect myself and hopeful loved ones from more attacking, but I'll hopefully be back soon to read.
Peace Zoners.
Forereel!

## Post 2 by Milo Theory (Zone BBS Addict) on Thursday, 20-Nov-2008 4:36:39

hi Forereel
If the level of trust that the two of you shared couldn't withstand this attack on your relationship, I think that it probably was not meant to be.
If people are not able to hear others out, to have faith and to work at their relationships; it's probably best to move on and not to keep on looking back.
And I'm not saying that you should just erase the past and forget about it. Remembering what occurred will help us in making decisions in the future.
As Sir GEORGE ORWELL states: "Within any important issue, there are always aspects no one wishes to discuss."

## Post 3 by margorp (I've got the gold prolific poster award, now is there a gold cup for me?) on Thursday, 20-Nov-2008 15:44:22

I agree...it's best to get on with your life.

## Post 4 by the sexy gentleman (Generic Zoner) on Sunday, 23-Nov-2008 23:43:50

I have something to say here, in regards to forreel's post, how can a keylogger just send these notes to the jealous person, unless you programmed it to do it? I know what happened, and I am not going into it, but you should be sorry, you should feel bad, you are a creep!

## Post 5 by margorp (I've got the gold prolific poster award, now is there a gold cup for me?) on Tuesday, 25-Nov-2008 16:32:40

okay, was that necissary?