# Which Online Relaitionship is the most interesting/disturbing?

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by yankee g wolverine (Account disabled) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:11:17

Title says it all folks. Enjoy, And keep me entertained dammit! After a few posts I'll be back to post my views. Note that the relationship doesn't have to be true. It can be onZone only.

## Post 2 by cantsee3p0 (Account disabled) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:15:14

Hmmmmm, I'd have to say the relationship between julia, and her many furry/feathered friends. lmfao!

## Post 3 by shea (number one pulse checking chicky) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:17:02

the most disturbing would have to be you, Garrett and Jelly o saki. oops did i tell your secrets? so sorry!

## Post 4 by cantsee3p0 (Account disabled) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:20:41

lmfao shea! as for interesting, I'd say jared and his programming languages, sinse he always compares them to women

## Post 5 by yankee g wolverine (Account disabled) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:23:43

lmfao daniel and shea! damn good answers! as for most interesting here. I think that birdshit thinks he's with cala, which is also a disturbing thought but yeha

## Post 6 by HauntedReverie (doing the bad mango) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:26:54

*shudders in horror. that is a bit disturbing but he got told off yesterday.

## Post 7 by cantsee3p0 (Account disabled) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:27:04

no, birdshit thinking he's with anything with a pussy if distrubing, he should go suck off jared or something.

## Post 8 by yankee g wolverine (Account disabled) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:40:45

lmfao! I think birdshit wants liam, as he continues to put liam's audio up as his own. or at least...I remember him doing that

## Post 9 by mariea (Newborn Zoner) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 10:53:05

oh yes... i was there yesterday when cala told birdy off... i don't know any of the relationships on here except like 2 so... really can't relate ...but wanted to add that about birdy dude

## Post 10 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 11:07:24

actually I think that all online relationships are disturbing, as none of them are real until parties have actually met. all this falling in love crap over the internet is just overrated.

## Post 11 by shea (number one pulse checking chicky) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 12:03:12

hmm, I would have to disagree with you claire. Not all internet started relationships are over rated. yeah, i can see where you would come up with that for some. but not all!

## Post 12 by ItsJustBabyT (the price is WRONG, bitch!) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 12:22:32

Daniel, stop being such a damn prick on this board. Don't be jealous because I'd rather be with Jared.

## Post 13 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 12:47:08

Daniel have fun living in your bitter loanly world, because as long as your this pissed off just because you didn't get what you wanted you'll never have a relationship and be single for the rest of your life. Sometimes you just have to let go, which you don't sceem to be able to do.

## Post 14 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 13:26:35

Shea, I don't necessarily think that people who m eet on the internet can't have a relationship, but I do think that it can't be called a relationship until the people involved have actually met in person. While you can be in love with the idea of someone, you can't possibly know for sure until you have met and had those feelings confirmed in person.

## Post 15 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 13:27:54

To post 14 agreed.

## Post 16 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 13:54:00

Agreed to last two speakers.
Internet may be a way for you to meet someone you think you'll fall in love with. You can even develop feelings, of sorts, based on what you think the person is like, but you never know until you meet, the longer you wait to meet after you feel there's something, the less likely it is to amount to anything.
Internet is jst like any other avenue of life, you meet people some interesting, some not so much, some you click with and some you do not click with, but the downside is that you geographical location becomes almost irrelevant so you may end up with a lot more practical problems when trying or wanting to turn that infatuation into a meeting, let alone living together and the like.
I don't even know if internet relationships work. I've seen the failed side of them and even if me and my fiance met online we knew each other for over 3 years without romantic intentions.
It looks like this site though has a few promising ones and I'll be curious to see how they play out, best of luck to all the people involved. :)
cheers
-B

## Post 17 by Wraith (Prince of Chaos) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 14:14:51

You guys are so mean! I have an online relationship with Shea's Jelly O Saki, and it's been going great! I'm not really sure when we met, what its actual name is, how old it is, or anything like that, but we love each other! So you negative bastards can go take a flying leap off a paper clip!

## Post 18 by Blue Velvet (I've got the platinum golden silver bronze poster award.) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 15:05:15

Personally, I'm madly in love with the randomizer. We'll be married soon I'm sure. Random users will be invited to the wedding.

## Post 19 by yankee g wolverine (Account disabled) on Monday, 05-Jun-2006 15:12:28

lmfaolmfao! I wanted this to cause trouble, but damn! yes! to post 14, agreed 100%. thanks for your input

## Post 20 by cantsee3p0 (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2006 14:44:47

lmfaolmfaolmfao kai!!!!and becky? hee!

## Post 21 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2006 15:03:37

I'd say Tremaine and Joseph, just because they seem to be very into it (which is not such a bad thing at all) and they haven't actually met. People can be different in person than they are online. I hope things work out for them.

## Post 22 by yankee g wolverine (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2006 15:27:16

I hope they work out, but they're no different than any other relationship. So...I doubt it'll work, just as I doubt any and all relationships, including my own

## Post 23 by jessmonsilva (Taking over the boards, one topic at a time.) on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2006 16:57:29

Hmmm well, Garret, so negative are we?

## Post 24 by yankee g wolverine (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2006 17:42:43

well? I find it rare that a relationship lasts long at all, not that I'm not willing to try myself though. lol

## Post 25 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2006 18:19:01

agreed
How can two people have a relationship or fall in love without even meeting?
Compatibility should be key in any relationship. If the partyes involved haven't met, then it really isn't a relationship.

## Post 26 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Tuesday, 06-Jun-2006 18:19:58

Surely someone is out there for you...No need for such negativity. It's all about the compatibility. Well, among other things.

## Post 27 by Perestroika (Her Swissness) on Sunday, 11-Jun-2006 6:23:14

Well, i think internet relationships can work, as long as the parties are committed to meeting, it can work out fine, David, variable calculous and i met in may and we're engaged and working on living in the same country, I love him more than anything and am greatful to the internet for letting me find him.

## Post 28 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 12-Jun-2006 8:42:02

I think it goes a lot further than just being able to meet though. I think that if you have strong feelings for someone and those feelings are confirmed when you meet in person, it’s a lot harder to walk away from someone you’ve met in person than from someone you haven’t if you can’t be together for practical reasons. And generally there are a lot more practical obstacles that prevent people who meet online and who live some considerable distance away from one another from being together on a permanent basis. If you meet someone who lives in a foreign country, then the chances of actually being able to have a permanent life together are virtually 0. Yes it can happen, but it’s really not all as simple as that. A lot of countries are notoriously difficult to emigrate to, and, contrary to popular belief, marriage to a resident of said country does not guarantee you a visa. So I think that while people can develop feelings, meet in person and have intentions to be together permanently, the reality is somewhat removed from the dream. As a matter of interest, I don’t know of one single couple living in separate countries who have met on the internet, and who have actually gone on to have a permanent relationship together.

## Post 29 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Monday, 12-Jun-2006 9:53:04

SB, I agree, in general with what you're saying although I think you take it further than I can agree with. There are instances where this can actually work. By "couple" in your previous post do you mean that in order for you to consider a relationship a full success the people involved have to be married, just out of curiousity?

## Post 30 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Monday, 12-Jun-2006 10:44:20

no b by "couple" i mean that the parties have to be living together on a permanent basis, i.e. where both parties are legally entitled to stay in the country permanently. After all if one party is only on a temporary visa for instance there is still always a chance that a permanent visa will not be granted.

## Post 31 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Monday, 12-Jun-2006 14:20:53

SB, fair enough definition. I know of one couple from HotBraille (precursor to the Zone) that met on there and got married, he from the U.S. she from Germany, they live in the U.S.
At least for the U.S. gaining residency is not so horribly difficult. It takes years though, which is the main problem and you must have an intermediate plan to come here such as the F1 student visa. Generally the factors that make living together in a different country so hard are financial in nature. If you don't have eduaction and you are relying on Social Security as source of income you'll lose that if you move since the new country will not be very happy about accepting you and putting you straight into its S.S. system (in fact I've never heard of that working) which means if you get married and both people rely on S.S. payments they'll have very little to live off of. Also you must have a bit of money to deal with the details of being able to get perminant visas, even student visas, you have to fly back home to pick up your student visa (if you are accepted) and then come back.
It's very difficult and it's something people must work very hard at, they must consider jobs/education as means of justfying theiir application independent of their marriage and in some cases they must qualify and in all cases they must be extremely patient but I disagree that it is impossible. I, in fact, tend to be able to proof the contrary in a matter of weeks. I still speak cautiously as I know the U.S. system is difficult to navigate and unexpected things may come up but I say if peole are willing to work hard at it and not just the relationship but their job/academic perspectives as well, this is something that is entirely possible. It's very hard, sure, but the bottomline is that it is doable, you do need commitment and a plan and some money in order to get it done though and most people who meet online like this don't have all three, at least not in the beginning, but without any of these things it will most likely fail.