# Family Opening and Closing the Door and not saying anything

Category: Let's talk

## Post 1 by cumbiambera2005 (i just keep on posting!) on Tuesday, 30-Sep-2008 19:36:20

I dont know if it's just me, or if anyone else has to endure this! I love my granma to death, and dont know what I'd do without her, but I hate when she opens my door and closes it again, and doesn't bother telling me anything! I dont know why she does this, but it's really irritating!

## Post 2 by SFAIdol (the Zone BBS remains forever my home page) on Tuesday, 30-Sep-2008 21:04:54

No, I haven't gone through that, but maybe u should ask her y she does that.

## Post 3 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Tuesday, 30-Sep-2008 22:50:02

well, if you spend most if not all your time in your room, and only come out if you have to, she's probablly just checking on you to see if your still alive.

## Post 4 by Nicky (And I aprove this message.) on Wednesday, 01-Oct-2008 3:01:23

Agree with post three, My family use to do it just to see what I was doing because I stayed n my room all the time. It does get anoying if they do it alot.

## Post 5 by bozmagic (The rottie's your best friend if you want him/her to be, lol.) on Wednesday, 01-Oct-2008 7:26:04

Just ocasionally, my mum'll do that. For example, she'll just open the door in the mornings when I'm totally zonked out, she doesn't bother waking me, but she'll leave a cup of coffee/cappuccino by the bed, so by the time I return to the land of the living, it's almost cold. She's never knocked on my door before just walking in to put clothes away or to tell me what she's going to do next if it's at all important, which sometimes it isn't, but there. I've come to accept that's just who she is and how she is, though give her her due, she has now started tapping on the door before just walking in, lmfao
Jen..

## Post 6 by Reyami (I've broken five thousand! any more awards going?) on Wednesday, 01-Oct-2008 9:24:44

Mom doesn't understand the meaning of the phraises, "knock before you enter my room," or "invasion of privacy."

## Post 7 by redgirl34 (Scottish) on Wednesday, 01-Oct-2008 16:14:03

My mum is the same, she just walks in my room. If I am listening to a tlking book or something I turn it off when she comes i. Some times it is just to put things away that she comes in. If want to get undressed she will say what are you waiting for? I say until you leave my room.

## Post 8 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Wednesday, 01-Oct-2008 19:17:45

mine just comes in to, but it's not exactly my bedroom that she just walks in to. i have a living/dining/kitchenette and my bedroom is at the back of that room. she has this rather bad habit of coming in to put something away, and then on her way out, she'll see something that i just left lying around and move it. sometimes she takes my garbage out, but i don't mind that, cause it just means that i don't have to go out the back to the trash cans, where we have spiders.......she knows i have a fear of thoes. lol, (not that i don't take it out myself, cause most of the time i do), the only thing i get really pissed off about is, if she suddenly decides she's going to move my furniture around on me, and i'm not talking about small things either. i mean, couches, tv cupboards, tables, etc. mum also knows that their's certain things that she's not even allowed to move at all, without me being around to see that she doesn't damage, and she respects that, and won't tuch any of it, specially my computer stuff, and my book cases of cd's and dvd's. i kno some people are gonna say, "it's her house she can move whatever she likes, whenever she likes", and that's true, but she doesn't see it that way. my part of the house is mine, to do what i like with, and for the most part, she does leave my things alone. it's only sometimes, that she does what i just said.

## Post 9 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Wednesday, 01-Oct-2008 19:38:12

i should just point out, that i'm a farely independent person, and that's why she doesn't tuch my stuff all the time. i do my own cooking, cleaning etc, and it's only if! she has room in her washing or is taking her own trash out, that she'll come and see if i have any trash, or if i have some washing to fill the machine up with. it kinda balences out though, cause she picks me up from work, and takes me food shopping and other stuff as well, and i help out by helping with the bills etc. some of you probablly don't even do that, but, (this is just a thought, not an attack) maybe it's something you guys should talk to your mum's or grandma's about. maybe, if you start helping out, then maybe you'll get peace in your rooms, and the only thing that you'll get your doors open for is, "i'm doing a load of laundry, do you have anything you need washed", or, "i'm going out, anything you need". btw, i'm not necesarily talking about money wise, cause i kno people don't have jobs or can't get one for whatever reason, i mean, by learning, or starting to do your own stuff around the house, like your own cleaning, even if it is just your bedroom, and, even putting your own things away, so your parents don't have to do it for you. that way, you'll get your peace, you'll kno where things are, and it'll give them one less thing to worry about.