# Just to say goodbye

Category: Let's talk

## Post 1 by moyzey (i'm posting? huh?) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 10:27:18

I'm not going to make a big thing about this so I'm just going to say a few things then that'll be all.
I wanted to let people know I am leaving the zone and won't be returning any time soon. This is a personal decision and one I've thought long and hard about, and while it is a wrench to say goodbye to the site that brought me so much happiness, I feel it is the right thing for me to do given the circumstances. Visiting here no longer makes me happy, but only succeeds in making me upset and angry, so it's a good thing for all if I go. This is to do with a number of issues and not anything specific. I just wanted to let people know so if they wanted to add me to MSN and skype, now is the time to do so as I may get my account deleted. My details are:
MSN= shortman_300@hotmail.com
skype = andym300
Feel free to add me and we can stay in touch.
Thank you to all of you for making my time here fun and entertaining. This place brought a couple of very special people into my life and I hope to keep them as close as I can in the future, ,but that can be done away from the zone, I can no longer come here and go away feeling content. As I said, this is my choice and I’d rather preserve the happy memories of the zone, and not taint them with the feelings I get now when visiting.
Thanks all so much once again
Happy zoning

## Post 2 by laced-unlaced (Account disabled) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 10:58:11

nice knowing you andy, it is ashame to see you go... but like you said, if that's what you want, it can only mean the best for you.
i'll chat with you someday soon (awwww!)
*cries*
thanks for giving us so much entertainment over your time here (it's been so fun!). your login messages never failed to amuse me
take care, and good luck for the future

## Post 3 by Blue Velvet (I've got the platinum golden silver bronze poster award.) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 12:18:15

Good luck. You and I never chatted, but I had gotten used to seeing your name frequently on the log in list. So whatever your reasons for leaving, I wish you the best.
Becky

## Post 4 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 16:18:58

well good luck with whatever it is you decide to do away from here, and while i don't kno what your going through, cause no-one can ever kno what's in a person's head, nor should they. if the zone is making you unhappy then you've made the right decition for yourself, and no-one has the right to argue with that. yeah, you will be missed, but if the zone is starting to make you unhappy, then if your friends are truly your friends, they won't stop you from not coming here anymore. like you said, there is msn and skype to keep in contact with you, so it's not like your totally just disappearing. like i said, good luck for your future, and may you find the happiness you deserve.

## Post 5 by Shadow_Cat (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 17:19:40

Moyzey, I never chatted with you personally either, but I've gotten used to seeing your name around here. I'm sorry ou feel you have to leave, but I understand that this place can get crazy, and not in the good way. Good luck to you!

## Post 6 by Emerald-Hourglass (Account disabled) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 18:20:09

i'm sorry i don't mean to be a bitch, but if a website has the ability to make you unhappy, then wow, that's pretty sad...but bye, and i bet you half my points you'll be logging in again anyways..sorry i just hate when people write posts like this, it just seems so attention seeking to me.

## Post 7 by moyzey (i'm posting? huh?) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 19:45:10

Hi
I'd like to reply to the last poster.
Firstly, you don't even know me, so quit being so judgmental.
Secondly, you've no idea of the reasons why I chose to leave. I shall satisfy your curiosity as I'm sure your gagging to find out. Seeing as your obviously considering it ok to call me attention seaking without knowing the facts, I shall enlighten you so you can actually make an informed decision for once. It is because I am sick to death of having weirdo's asking me fucking creepy questions about situations and subjects that have fuck all to do with them just because they want sordid details or hot gossip with no regard for what damage it does to people and their lives. I do not wish to play any part in fucking up people's lives just because others are to damn nosey.
Thirdly, you are right to say I would log back in. Where in my post did I say I was going for good you stupid girl. I only plan to be away for a few months, not forever, so get your damn facts straight before you get all high and mighty.
And with all that said, I have asked for this thread to be removed because I don't want anyone turning this into some kind of place for being rude or mean to one another. I simply thought most zoners would have the decency and maturity to see it for what it was, a chance for me to say goodbye to the decent ones amongst you and to pass on my contact details. I suppose I underestimated the simple stupidity of some of you.

## Post 8 by Shadow_Cat (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 20:40:39

Moyzey, I think most of us do have the maturity to take your original post as you meant it. Don't let one rude post mess you up, when there were several above it that were nice. Though I am glad you gave her what for. *Grin*
I will say this. Leave the site if it's what you feel you should do. But, the ignore feature, and staying off of public QN's are also good ways to stay out of the drama. As I said on another board, the rudeness, immaturity, and crap around here are not right, and it sucks that they exist. But I do think that it is possible to enjoy the site and avoid most of the crap. However, as I said, you need to do what is best for you.

## Post 9 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 22:34:12

okay you guys just need to chill. Andy if it's what you need to do, then do it, and, Janelle is entitled to her appinion, however "rude" some people may think it is. so, now having said that, i'm going to have mine, and you either like it or not. yes, i do still stand by my earlier post and everything i said in it. however, just because you ask for your account to be deleated, or this board to be removed, doesn't mean it will be. i think you'll find the answer to be, "just don't log in", or something along thoes lines, and, if people went around asking for their boards to be taken down, then most of the boards would have either a lot of holes in them, or hardly nothing on them at all. at least you get to say goodbye.

## Post 10 by Emerald-Hourglass (Account disabled) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 22:56:29

for a few months and you logged in before the day is over..rite then
"Secondly, you've no idea of the reasons why I chose to leave. I shall satisfy your curiosity as I'm sure your gagging to find out"...i don't even know you your rite so why would i care. my point wasn't even that.
"It is because I am sick to death of having weirdo's asking me fucking creepy questions about situations and subjects that have fuck all to do with them
just because they want sordid details or hot gossip with no regard for what damage it does to people and their lives. I do not wish to play any part in fucking up people's lives just because others are to damn nosey."
ok first of all, how hard is it to tell them to fuck off and mind their own business. what other people have to say or are dying to know shouldn't cause you to want to leave..that's just stupid. and what happened to the ignore feature. and how telling people shit that you don't wanna tell them for whatever reason on some website..well if that's something that will fuck up their lives then boy do i feel sorry for them lol. all i'm saying
i'm just tired of seeing all these boards "oh i'm leaving so i'll think i'll write a board about it so people can say how much they'll miss me and maybe convince me not to leave so i then feel so loved"..not saying that's what your doing, maybe you are dunno, but most people who do this do, so your just putting yourself in the same category.

## Post 11 by Emerald-Hourglass (Account disabled) on Monday, 10-Nov-2008 23:00:32

and yeah you can't get your account deleted so your contacts will still be in there if people wanna contact you...i don't see why people want their account deleted so bad anyways. "just don't log in". :P

## Post 12 by moyzey (i'm posting? huh?) on Tuesday, 11-Nov-2008 3:52:32

Yep, I've discovered since posting this board that I can't get my account deleted and if i'd have known that, I would never have posted my details here as they can just be retrieved from my profile. Secondly, that is not the only reason for me leaving. There are a few others, so the ignore feature or whatever isn't gonna cut it. I don't see why it's such a big deal me letting those know who I hardly see on here that i've gone. figured this was the best way to do it. I don't want or expect lots of people to write nice messages to convince me to stay, I'm not staying and that's that. lol
And now I think this thread and discussion is dead, I'm off to change my password to something I don't know and /seek new things and I won't be back to reply no matter what's said here.
I'll see yuall in the spring or something
Andy

## Post 13 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Tuesday, 11-Nov-2008 8:30:58

andy, I hope you get whatever it is you need to get figured out. But, remember, it's just a web sight, and you can choose to answer a person's questions or not. Life, and the world is full of creeps, fools, and idiots. You said that this sight once brought you happiness, keep this in mind, and don't let your les than stellar experiences sour your time here. Trust me on this, i've had to deal with some unfortunate lessons I've had to learn from this sight, but they are just that, lessons.

## Post 14 by blindndangerous (the blind and dangerous one) on Tuesday, 11-Nov-2008 10:26:48

Andy, i'll be seeing ya around I hope then. I believe you still have my skype and MSN details, so talk to ya soon then. Whatever is bothering you, I hope it resolves itself, and hope to see you either on here or on miriani. l8r, Mike.

## Post 15 by shark (the zone's favorite, Canadian Great White) on Tuesday, 11-Nov-2008 17:16:01

um, janelle? tell us how ya really feel! just, ...wow!
Cam

## Post 16 by Skyla (move over school!) on Thursday, 12-Feb-2009 16:12:45

No kidding.