# My fetish

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by devinprater (Veteran Zoner) on Sunday, 15-Dec-2013 3:16:09

I know I haven’t been on the boards in a while, but I’m back, I think. I would have posted this in the main fetishes topic, but it is locked. *frown* Well, a few of my closest friends know, but none of them are blind, but I thought I’d shoot this out to the whole community of the blind and see what happens. Ladies and gentlemen, I have a fat fetish. I love feeling big bellies and chubby arms, and love rubbing girls’ bellies. A few days ago, I felt my girlfriend’s belly and was raging within for like a minute thinking about what else may lurk beneath her clothing. The problem is, she’s only around 160 or so pounds, and I’d love to experience her getting bigger, but she’s not into that kind of stuff. I myself am exactly 200 pounds, last time I checked, which was a few weeks ago, and don’t mind being a fluffy kitty at all. :) But fatness is only a sexual desire of mine, and if a girl is fat but doesn’t carry on meaningful conversations with me, I wouldn’t think much of her at all. The reason I think my attraction to fat is a fetish is because when I learn that a girl is chubby or whatever, she becomes instantly my object of fantasy. One time though, I was with a girl that, online, was called fat by a lot of guys, but when I finally met her, her belly didn’t even reach her belt. I was, admittedly, rather disappointed. My current girlfriend’s belly doesn’t either, but just feeling the soft fatness of it gives me insight into what it would be like a hundred or so pounds later. On the aspect of porn, the sounds don’t exactly turn me on much, but the stories, oh my gosh the stories! I found a sight called dimensions, I’m not sure how exactly its spelled, but I seem to remember it being spelled differently. One short story I found was of a fat-admiring hypnotist that hypnotized his wife into wanting to get fatter. The story ended with the wife, before sex, wanted food, saying that she’s starving. The stories of that sight aroused me to such an extent that I was softly moaning, which has never happened before. I was, during this summer, with a girl that was around 220 pounds. Her belly was big and round, and was extremely satisfying. Unfortunately, she turned out to be quite mean, and with me being rather depressed at the time, I broke up with her. Now, around five months later, she plans to get married, so I suppose I’m not missing out on too much. Besides, perhaps my current girlfriend can be easily hypnotized... Nah, I’m not sure if I could be that nefarious, but perhaps... :)
I’m not sure when my fat fetish began. In fourth grade, I was in public school. There were quite a few big girls there, and I loved the feel of their arms as I held on to them as we traversed the halls of the school--the admins didn’t bother giving me instructions of mobility during public school--and the bouncing of their bodies as they walked. I’d always pick a big girl to walk with me. The fetish sort of died out during my middle school years, but in around ninth grade there was another fluffy girl that I grew attracted to. Not only was she around 190 pounds, her and I also had many good conversations, although nowadays I hear she’s become gay.
For the longest time, I thought my fat fetish was something close to a sin. I didn’t tell anyone. But one day, I was on a dating site called MeetMe, and posted it and got a few likes. So I called a friend, who is rather chubby herself, and told her. She just laughed and said it was fine. Ever since, I’ve been proud of my fetish, although my family doesn’t know. They discourage me about my weight as it is, and I’m honestly not that fat... Yet. So folks, what do you think?

## Post 2 by DevilishAnthony (Just go on and agree with me. You know you want to.) on Sunday, 15-Dec-2013 17:26:21

This is interesting, thanks for sharing. Personally, I think there are a whole lot worse things to get in to. So, you like big fat girls! I see absolutely nothing wrong with it. We hear all the time about guys liking really skinny girls, so this is just the opposite. I can see how the sounds of porn wouldn't help you at all. Luckily, I'm in to stuff that can be heard and doesn't have to be felt or seen in order to be enjoyed.

## Post 3 by forereel (Just posting.) on Sunday, 15-Dec-2013 17:34:17

Lots of guys like heavier girls. In some cultures men won't marry smaller girls, because they feel they'll have problems having kids.
If you like what is called "thick" girls, take your current girlfriend out to eat more.
I knew a guy that wouldn't date a woman under 200, so there you go. I don't call it a fetish, but a like.

## Post 4 by bermuda-triangulese (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Monday, 16-Dec-2013 10:31:08

wait. why was the original fetish topic locked?
Trust me. there are way odder things...you are lucky mate, yours is at least socially acceptible

## Post 5 by Runner229 (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Monday, 16-Dec-2013 13:24:41

Nothing wrong with it at all. I know plenty of guys and girls that like thicker. This one chick told me once I would be better off as a big flat blob as it would be a better pillow which I refuse to do lol. I bust my ass in the gym at school and even working out over the holidays and it's a lifestyle that's hard to turn down once you get in to it, plus everyone has their own preferences so I'm not out to try and please everyone. But nothing wrong with liking some meat on the bones.

## Post 6 by devinprater (Veteran Zoner) on Monday, 16-Dec-2013 13:54:37

Oh wow, send that girl to me! LOL XD

## Post 7 by Shadow_Cat (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Monday, 16-Dec-2013 19:50:00

Bermuda, if a topic hasn't been posted to in a year or more, it automatically becomes locked. My guess is that's what happened with the original fettish topic. And to the original poster, this would not be one of mine, but to each their own.

## Post 8 by steelersfan062013 (Generic Zoner) on Monday, 16-Dec-2013 20:43:16

Funny you mention this. Maybe it's the other way around. I notice more guys are into big(ger) women than women into big(ger) guys (unless big as in muscle of course.) I personally don't care. I mean, I don't "like" big fluffy chicks, but hey if it happens it happens. If their personality, heart, and etc. can make up for it, then hey! Let's go! LOL.
I do however, think I have a foot fetish...weird?
yes...?
no...?
maybe so...?
Totally sorry if I change or changed the topic and flow of your board post Devin. And no, to answer your general topic, nothing wrong with liking bigger heavy set chicks. We've all got our preferences. That's what makes the world go round.

## Post 9 by devinprater (Veteran Zoner) on Monday, 16-Dec-2013 20:50:39

Wow! Thank you all for your possitivity and acceptance! Xd

## Post 10 by Maiden of the Moonlight (Zone BBS is my Life) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 2:27:51

Weird, I was thinking about this earlier. I'm honest to goodness not trying to down you in any way, but how can you be into obesity? My thing is that it's literally a health concern. People have major heart and back troubles, amongst many other things, due to obesity, and 220 pounds at 5 foot 2 or 3 is just so, so unhealthy. Again, I'm not knocking you for what you're into, I'm just wondering how you can overlook the health risks.
.... And seriously, everyone and their mother has a foot fetish on this site, I swear. Well, maybe not, but like ok. My thing is, do what you do, be into whatever you want, but please, don't impose it on everyone else. I'm not saying anyone here has, in any way, so don't worry I'm not actually necessarily talking about any of you, but I will respect your outlandish interests if you respect the fact that, 9 times out of 10, I'm not into them, and do not want to participate. Some people on here with various fetishes are so, so gross about it, and it really gives anyone with a fetish a shit reputation.
Personally, I don't feel that I have a fetish, only preferences for certain things that are mostly societal norms. So maybe I'm just naive. But just my views.

## Post 11 by steelersfan062013 (Generic Zoner) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 10:17:42

You're welcome, Devin! Haha, nothing wrong with being blunt and honest. You go a bit overboard there bud, I think.
Maiden, really? I don't feel so alone then. Maybe mine isn't even a fetish I don't know. I just like feet, the way they feeling so soft and smooth, rubbing a lady's soft feet as she falls asleep at night, popping her toes for her, you know stuff like that. Painting her toes, (used to do this for my ex who was in a W/C). I don't do any of the foot jobs or anything of that nature. That disgusts me, so maybe it isn't a fetish.
And yeah, I think it is odd Mr. Devin here likes chubby women. Not odd but different. You sound thick, but cute Maiden. Like you can handle yourself well, if you get me. :) Like your choice of wording too and agree with you. I am loosing weight, and noticing a big positive impact on my health. :)

## Post 12 by Leafs Fan (I'll have the last word, thank you!) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 11:04:38

Gotta say I am with post 10 from Sarah.

## Post 13 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 11:18:05

So what defines a fetish over a preference anyway? I mean people with the traditional preferences are just as stuck to those as any fetishist, only because it's traditional and acceptable it is called a preference?
Me I like fluffy hair on a chick, I enjoy tall chicks and being entangled / enfolded in her wings.
I enjoy the general contented sounds a woman just makes while bing herself, and I do enjoy the sound of my wife's bare feet padding around the apartment, and the sound of Her brushing Her hair.
So, why aren't people's long list of standards a fetish? Or people who are traditional and need to have all the traditional requirements met considered fetishists? Maybe someday they will be. After all, I read somewhere that a fetish is where you can't get turned on without it.
So the traditionalist who is only into the society's norms is the hallmark of fetishism because they cannot get turned on by something outside of that box. Only society would not consider them fetishists because they are upholding the security blanket we call society's norms.
Good bad or indifferent, not saying right or wrong, but just challenging the prefab assersions we all, myself included, make about things. Hoping to challenge them rationally at least.

## Post 14 by forereel (Just posting.) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 11:32:31

(*gives Maiden a good foot rub. Hve one, never go back.
Seriously, did you know that many heavier women don't experience the health problems until they get older? I'd agree that 5 foot or 5.3 and 22 is just to much girl when they are that short, but taller women actually have prefect blood pressure, no diabetics, because the love that breakfast, hyper tenchen, and such.
I'm fit, love fit, but I've seen some healthy big girls, so I guess that depends on how one takes care of themselves.
I wonder if nature give a break to the younger heavy woman, but as she ages she needs to lose itdue to that reason of child birthing?
Also, remember fat goes in and out of fashion. In Hawaii, excuse the spelling, fat is in vogue right now. If you are a fatter pretty girl, you get all the dates over these fit ones. The surfer girls are left with the boards. Lol

## Post 15 by forereel (Just posting.) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 11:34:05

That is 220, not 22. Lol

## Post 16 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 11:45:22

Wayne's right. The so-called health concerns about fat people is more an adult eww factor than anything else most of the time. Not saying there aren't real concerns.
But did you know a lot of this obesity epidemic is caused by the fact they reduce the numbers all the time? Last I read, if you are 25 pounds overweight, you are clinically obese. I have been 25 pounds overweight, and I ran and lifted heavy objects and did a lot more physical work than any of these little spazzes taking legal methamphetamines and running around in an institutionalized gym like rats on a wheel.
I really hate it when yukk factors get exchanged for science. Yes, there are health risks associated with a lot of different things: being too fat, being the window cleaner for the Space Needle in Seattle (yes I knew a guy who did that as a temp), being an iron worker, and so on. There are health risks associated with being a software developer. Stress-related, sitting on my ass most the day, and so on. I'd love to have a job where I ran around like I used to when running stores.
I have family who are bigger people. And I think most people need to stop calling the eww factor science, get over it and grow up. People are attracted to what they're attracted, so what, run a mile up hill with me after you pop them legal meth diet pills like a pez dispenser.
Not all really skinny people are anorexics and not all bigger people are fat hogs. Note whenever this discussion comes up in so-called health forums they mey not overtly say fat hogs but it's pretty thinly veiled. Lol they have a word for us who have the bigger people's back: I was called a 'enabler' by a pathetic little wimp because he didn't like me facing him down after he made unsolicited comments about what a person shouldn't be eating, at a restaurant. Poor fool, probably raised without a father, thought he could spout off a challenge and have it go unanswered. At least I had no illusions about teaching him anything.
I'm not a chubby chaser myself, but why do we call them chubby chasers? We should call people who go after the skinny little gold-diggers meth-chasers then?
Anyway if you are gonna be into big fluffy chicks be prepared to have their back and stand tall about it: lots of teenage-style eeeww factor guised as science, it's quite a magic show.
And if you're 25 pounds overweight now, you are part of the obesity epidemic. I guess that would be like calling the common cold influenza and saying we have an influenza epidemic worse than 1918? Not saying there isn't a real problem: there is, it's just crowded by grown-up teenagers saying eewww in a polite way.

## Post 17 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 11:52:09

I find it ironic how people can say to someone, "I'm not knocking you, but how can you be into fat people?"
to those who feel that way, did you perhaps bother to consider that not everyone is fat cause they enjoy being fat?
did it occur to you that if they enjoy being fat, they might be totally comfortable in their skin, and do, contrary to popular belief, take good care of themselves?
just as being overweight can cause health problems, so to can being too skinny.
so, then, would you ask people, "how can you be into someone that's skinny?" based on the posts I've seen, you probably would, but again, who are you to judge, without fully knowing what that person's habits are? just saying.

## Post 18 by Maiden of the Moonlight (Zone BBS is my Life) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 17:03:51

Haha, I knew I'd catch shit for my post, but that's alright.
Yeah, there's tons of health risks associated with many fetishes or preferences I'm sure. And I wasn't trying to knock anyone. Was honest to God curious.
Leo, in response to your post about fetish versus preference and societal norms, I think I agree, but the difference for me is that I don't know of any of my preferences that would constitute a fetish, per say. I may be mis understanding the definition of a fetish, but I thought they meant the person needed them in order to be attracted to the person, and in order to engage in sex, and that the sex becomes centralized around the fetish - like a fixation, or something. Yeah, there are certain things that I would prefer if I'm going to get intimate, but they aren't fixations, I don't think. Stuff like good hygiene, a good personality, and around my age, I guess would be my preferences, but I don't see how you can make those into fetishes. Probably back to the whole societal norms thing. They aren't considered fetishes because most people in society would agree with me. Even so, though. I prefer someone to be my age if we're going to get intimate, but during the intercourse, I'm not thinking about their age. Likewise, I definitely can't get turned on if their breath smells, but I'm not going to get all hot and bothered at the thought of them brushing their teeth. I don't know if that makes sense, or if I misunderstood your point.

## Post 19 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 17:10:27

Nah makes sense. I wasn't so much questioning you as the concept in general. But yeah I can see this.

## Post 20 by DevilishAnthony (Just go on and agree with me. You know you want to.) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 17:20:55

It would also be nice if we could just flip a switch and turn off any unwanted attraction. Okay, so, I find out that bacon is bad for me. I'll just convince myself I don't like it and that it actually makes me sick. If you can control yourself like that, then more power to ya, but I think you'd be a minority there. I hear about guys loving the lil skinny gals in skimpy bathingsuits running around on the beach. Do we ever hear something like, "How can you be in to that? Don't you see all the health risks associated with those girls and how much skin they're exposing to the sun, and how could you let them starve like that?"
Just my own thoughts on it. Believe me. There are a lot of people who would change the things that turned them on if they could. I don't like my dark blonde hair, so tomorrow, when I wake up, it'll be a very light blonde! Cool!

## Post 21 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 17:28:31

Lol Anthony the feminists of the 1980s blamed those very men for anorexia. I knew guys who felt they were guilty for what these girls ended up suffering, and all because of their attraction, not anything they actually said to anyone.
And you know what? That pseudo-science was proven wrong: Anorexia is a mental condition that is nobody's fault, but it is treatable.
And ah how many suffered needlessly because some disease matched what some people's dogma wanted them to believe and so they took advantage of it and called it science. Same things for the chubbies now I bet.

## Post 22 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 17:37:16

thank you, Anthony. that's what I was trying to get at, in my post.

## Post 23 by forereel (Just posting.) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 18:27:27

I'd have to agree with Maden about what makes a fetish over just a like.
I am technically obese, or was, because I am 5 feet 11, but was up to 200 pounds. I'm 186 now, but will get back there after the holidays lazy.
I have like 5% fat on my body.
Body frames are different, so you have to take in to account the person. Obesity to me is that girl at 5 feet weighing in at 220, but if she were 5.10 6 feet, and was plump, she'd just be a big girl.
Now if she were as I am, 5 11, but muscled, she'd weigh around 180, and that be obese as for the record books gsaying, but actually, she'd be fit as hell.
She'd need to be a stocky gorl with muscle to weigh in a 200, and have no fat on her, and that is possible too. But not likely if she is doing things naturally and not using drugs to get there. Women are lighter then guys, even at the same height when it comes to muscle.
If you add real fat no.
I think a girl with some fat on her looks healthier over a girl with no fat at all. Even really fit girls will have some fat.
But, if a man likes a really fat girl, that is a like, I'd not call it a fetish.

## Post 24 by devinprater (Veteran Zoner) on Tuesday, 17-Dec-2013 19:38:46

Interiting comments. Thank you all! Xd but let the comments continue.

## Post 25 by forereel (Just posting.) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 2:36:46

You know something I learned?
If you state on a dating site you are fit, and workout, you have less hits? When you do get them, you are ask questions, like, "are you really going to expect me to get up at the crack of dawn and workout? I'm telling you now, I'm not that kind of girl."
I'd bet money, you could find exactly what you want on these big and beautiful sites. Ever try these?
Or many dating sites?
Read some of the adds, and many will have terms like big and beautiful.
For free, just check out the Craigs List adds for fun. If I'm write, about the type of adds, post it.
There was one argument made me laugh. Some guy suggested that every girl wasn't beautiful because she was fat, and that brought on a hail storm. Smile.

## Post 26 by bermuda-triangulese (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 10:56:04

On the comments between fetishism and preferences. I would say a few things that differentiate them. You may have a preference for long hair, but largely in the context of the girl who has it...if she's longhaired and a complete bitch...You're probably not going to be into them. Whereas if you've a fetish for long hair, she can basically be whatever and as long as you get to have a..um...hair job? I guess, then you're ok with it. For me, I have preferences in girls and I have fetishes, the former I can compromise on if I love her. The latter are just things that are there.

## Post 27 by Runner229 (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 11:26:48

But isn't a fettish a bit more of an obsession? It's easy to see the difference between a preference and a fettish but it's hard to explain. Many turn ons can be considered fettishes I guess. Fettishes don't have to be gross or odd. It more so comes down to how the person acts or what they say that makes it more or less creepy. I really like hands. I like the different textures of hands and the feeling of hands as they touch me. Sometimes if I hear a chick that sounds cute or if someone tells me that a chick is good looking I wonder what her hands are like. But I wouldn't take it to the extreme that some do, where they would want to sit on people's hands or walk up to them and just hold their hands, or anything creepy like that.

## Post 28 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 11:37:55

Ah there is a difference between what one thinks and what one does.
Anyone can be creepy about anything. But that is not a fault of a fetish or a preference, that is just a short circuit in that particular model of homo sapien.
Bermuda Triangulese explained things very well though, in my opinion.

## Post 29 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 11:45:53

yes, Bermuda explained things quite well.
to add to what he said, though, one of my best friends has a fettish for pregnant women. this doesn't mean that sex isn't enjoyable for him, if he has sex with a woman who isn't pregnant. it's simply something that, for lack of a better word, just is.

## Post 30 by bermuda-triangulese (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 12:47:57

yeah. I think that relates to the intensity of the fetish. some people are exclusive fetishists, others are not.

## Post 31 by forereel (Just posting.) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 18:01:23

Okay, so to the boards creator. Do you care what the girl is like, or if she's fat, it doesn't matter what she's like?
Long hair, race, tall, short, voice quality. All that is not noticed, as long as she's fat. Is that your preference?
I'm really interested in your answer.

## Post 32 by devinprater (Veteran Zoner) on Wednesday, 18-Dec-2013 20:16:07

I like fatness in a girl, but as I showed my x, if the if you're a bitch, you're gone no matter how fluffy. I do like fat though, its very sexy to me. I do like short fat girls or tall ones. I also love girls with long hair.

## Post 33 by forereel (Just posting.) on Thursday, 19-Dec-2013 19:54:22

But, if the girl wasn't fat at all, could you enjoy her just as much sexually, or does it require a fat girl to make you rise, so to speak?

## Post 34 by devinprater (Veteran Zoner) on Thursday, 19-Dec-2013 20:48:43

Well, if she knows how to use her body, like if she's tall and skinny, that would probably wolk a little, but if she's less than 5 feet 6 or s, the'd have to have some meat on her bones to at least give my some irectation.

## Post 35 by forereel (Just posting.) on Friday, 20-Dec-2013 8:34:59

Alright! You'll want to try these sites. You'll get lucky. Smile. For whatever reason, and OI've not thought about it deeply, so, it might just be my opinion, there are lots of heavy women in the land.
A man that doesn't mind this, or prefers it will do better, because many of the girls that contact him will be exactly what he wants.
I have placed adds specificly stating I'd like someone fit, and gotten slapped for it, but if I don't say, many of the girls were in the area of 200 and something. If short, above 175 easy.
Type "big and beautiful" in your search engine, and enjoy. Smile.

## Post 36 by forereel (Just posting.) on Friday, 20-Dec-2013 8:39:05

A side note. Some of these girls are absolutely beautiful. For some reason, there hair shines, the skin is clear, and glows a bit. Personalities are nicer, because they don't feel there queens.
There you go, my opinions.

## Post 37 by devinprater (Veteran Zoner) on Sunday, 22-Dec-2013 17:57:52

Thank you, fore reel.

## Post 38 by forereel (Just posting.) on Sunday, 22-Dec-2013 19:37:25

No worries. It's costing you.