# For guys. (early 20's) older or younger women?

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by JH_Radio (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Monday, 22-Nov-2004 14:32:59

I can say without a doubt, for me its older women that I'm more attracted too. ask. Well quite a few reasons. First off, I can have a conversation about stuff that most younger people don't know about simply for the fact that they've not had experioence with it. Secondly they don't play games as much, or at least i WOULD THINK THEY'D PLAY LESS BECAUSE OF THE FACT the games are stupid and only hurt. I feel they are at more my level. Also, they've giggured out there morals, at least I'd hope so.
Thoughts anyone? (Just FYI, I'm 22, and I ai'nt talking much older, but a few years (later 20's or so.) Just curious as to what others think on this. Most women prefer older guys I realize that, now I wanna know if some guys prefer older women, too? John

## Post 2 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Monday, 22-Nov-2004 16:30:05

Hmm, I really don't know. You meet a girl/woman and you fall in love and you want to do whatever it takes to be with that person. The last thing I think about is how old she is, it really doesn't matter that much. Ok if the difference is like 15 years and some might say older women are more experienced and into all that stuff, yet I'm sure it's hard to make such statements, sure they're probably more experienced but the only thing that makes sexual things beyond amazing is having intense feelings for each other, otherwise stuff like technique or stamina or whatever couldn't matter less.
I think it's all about falling in love and not worrying so much about the person's age or looks or ablities or nationality or whatever, just let it go and try to make it work once you fall in love. :)
cheers
-B

## Post 3 by JH_Radio (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Tuesday, 23-Nov-2004 0:15:06

Oh. I'm not saying its a big huge importance to me, weather it be looks, age, etc etdc... I'm just saying its been my experience, that I find that older women have more stimulating conversations. I didn't mean experience as it relates to sex, dude.

## Post 4 by CrazyTrain (Generic Zoner) on Tuesday, 23-Nov-2004 17:04:32

I’m most attracted to women around my own age or younger, but not too young. I have had some great conversations with older women but I just don't find them attractive.

## Post 5 by InternetKing (the Zone BBS remains forever my home page) on Tuesday, 23-Nov-2004 17:27:43

I couldn't agree more with what Wildebrew said. When I fall in love, I fall in love because of the charcteristic of that particular girl, not because I know that she's younger or older than me. I really don't think much of age and definitely don't judje people by their age. Of course I wouldn't have a relationship with a girl who's like 15 years older than me. I've mainly dated younger women, once I dated a girl who was a year older than me, but it didn't make any difference at all, well age didn't anyway. As for conversations? I've had more interesting and inteligent conversations with some 16 year olds than I had with some women in their 30s, yes of course the natural thing is that older are meant to be more experienced, but it's all about how mature you are, how educated/inteligent you are, how interesting you make your self to be and believe me some very young girls can be very interesting and inteligent.

## Post 6 by Grace (I've now got the ggold prolific poster award! wahoo! well done to me!) on Tuesday, 23-Nov-2004 20:08:00

Hi JH_Radio, not quite in to knowing if I am to Post, the mention of younger women, like younger than the 20's you listed.. Ah well, here I be, Yes female, age *?* and relating one to the other Yes... ...CG here === Persons of various ages, gender(s), and the list goes on .. and .. on ... as already mentioned. Communication all various levels makes for Interest & lively stimulation of the mental emotions and feelings too as understanding expands... Oh Good!ness isn't it Fine that we are not each one and the same... how so verry boring indeed ... hope not bored to death as my listed .... *smile/half grin* ...CG here

## Post 7 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Wednesday, 24-Nov-2004 0:33:20

Well said Internet King.
And, hey, why is more mature better, well, what does "more mature mean"? Does it mean having kids and may be just talk about your job and how to feed the kids and how to make money fast (a friend of mine becmae like that after he and his girl friend had kids, I couldn't stand the guy after that, it was all about schemes to make money and education for the girl and bleah bleah). I mean, I like that too, I like peole who can talk about everything, who can be silly and serious. I often find myself bored talking to older people, at least those who have sort of given up on life and don't see the beauty in the little things or can be silly at times. I really don't like even thinking about age or maturity as factors that make any difference. Of course it's different for different people and that's cool. I like intelligent people in general, I'm attracted to intelligence for sure and, hey, I mean you get a university degree when you're 20, after that it's just a matter of what you go through and stuff.
cheers
-B

## Post 8 by The Wicked Witch of The East (we deserve each other) on Wednesday, 09-Feb-2005 16:47:34

ummmm ok johnny.

## Post 9 by brandywine (Veteran Zoner) on Wednesday, 09-Feb-2005 19:19:47

I don’t believe you will have a problem finding an older woman. I have 4 older sisters, and they are all with younger guys. At least 8 years younger.
For me, I like the older guys.

## Post 10 by Nem (I just keep on posting!) on Wednesday, 09-Feb-2005 22:05:39

Well having had dated many ranges of older women, I would have to say that they games thy play are different then the games younger women play. Experince all across the board isn't nessasairly a good thing. Sometimes experince means baggage. Don't get me wrong there is a lot of good in dating older women they tend to have done more and know what they want. At the same token they usally are in a rush to achieve the goal they set. For you everything is new, for them, they've already done it. I don't know it all depends on where you are.
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