# confused

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by dumbblonde16 (Newborn Zoner) on Wednesday, 20-Jul-2005 22:53:39

i have this friend she has te most loving boyfriend ever she loves him a lot but she still has feelings for her ex today one of her other friends showed her a picture of her ex and hes cute as ever i keep telling her 2 not break up with the guy shes with now but she thinks about her ex all the time even thou he broke her hurt heart and shes fanilly over it but whenever she hears his name or sees his picture she thinks of him and how much she still likes him what should she do should she break up with her boyfriend now and try 2 get him back and the girl in talking about is me i justed used my friend i dont want 2 make my boyfriend mad he has the zone and i love him a lot should i stay with him i am so confused what should i do help me out and thanks a bunch for helping thanks again miranda

## Post 2 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Thursday, 21-Jul-2005 3:30:49

Now that is strange ... I mean, only because he is cute, she should not consider leaving a loving boy. I don'T care about outer cuteness. I would stay with that guy if I was her. It might be better for her, honestly. I mean - one day she will have to get over him if she knows that he broke her heart. That is my opinion.

## Post 3 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Thursday, 21-Jul-2005 10:41:25

i agree with ines.

## Post 4 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Thursday, 21-Jul-2005 13:10:38

Well if she thinks about him constantly that is obviously a sign that she is NOT over him.. and it is very unfair to date this other fella when she still feels strongly for her ex.She should tell her Ex how she feels, and go from there,if he has moved on, then your friend will have to accept his decision..Could it be that she is seeing this other guy to keep her mind off her ex,if so,its clearly not working and her current boyfriend deserves to know the truth...

## Post 5 by asdfghjkl (Account disabled) on Friday, 22-Jul-2005 11:40:34

Girly, I know how you feel. I've been through it too. But, um, i have no idea what to do, as I am still going through it a little... um, PQN or PM me and we can talk. -Mel-

## Post 6 by mdyer1983 (I can't call it a day til I enter the zone BBS) on Friday, 22-Jul-2005 13:59:50

Well being that I am stuill going through some hard time, but if she still has feelings for her X than she should talk to her current and maybe he will be able to try and help. That is the best advice I can give write now. Matthew

## Post 7 by asdfghjkl (Account disabled) on Friday, 22-Jul-2005 14:19:46

That is good advice, actually, and you could always talk to a trusted friend or something like that...

## Post 8 by changedheart421 (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Saturday, 23-Jul-2005 18:09:11

i think that if she still has feelings for her ex then she shouldn't have dated the other one anyway. that's just covering up the fact and if you ex and you are ment to be then it doesn't work.

## Post 9 by mdyer1983 (I can't call it a day til I enter the zone BBS) on Sunday, 24-Jul-2005 0:16:55

Well It sounds like there is a lot of comments I am still sticking with my comment.

## Post 10 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Sunday, 24-Jul-2005 9:22:42

Inflexability is rarely a good idea...