# would you ever?

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by Marissapc2010 (Zone BBS is my Life) on Saturday, 19-Aug-2006 7:10:14

I've never seen this asked, so I think I'll ask it.
If you had just broken up with your boyfriend or girlfriend, And there best friend had feelings for you, would you ever consider dating your exis best friend? Would you care that you could be braking up there friendship?
I'm curious, tell me what you think.

## Post 2 by BB (move over school!) on Saturday, 19-Aug-2006 7:17:35

I have had it where a friend dated my Ex GF. Weirdly enough, we stayed friends through it all.

## Post 3 by UnknownQuantity (Account disabled) on Saturday, 19-Aug-2006 10:56:38

I would care if I knew it would break up their friendship, and they were long-time friends, then I would probably not, but if we really liked each other, and I had been separated from my ex a while, then I would probably go ahead. However if I had just separated from them and my best friend showed interest, I wouldn't accept.

## Post 4 by Nem (I just keep on posting!) on Saturday, 19-Aug-2006 11:48:53

Love should be a selfish thing. I say your mate should warn you but not stand in the way.

## Post 5 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Saturday, 19-Aug-2006 13:47:12

probably not.

## Post 6 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Saturday, 19-Aug-2006 15:28:49

why the hell not, he's shown interest.....

## Post 7 by tear drop (No longer looking for a prince, merely a pauper with potential!!!!!) on Saturday, 19-Aug-2006 15:31:16

perhaps I was a bit hasty, maybe that is a bit cold.....

## Post 8 by Marissapc2010 (Zone BBS is my Life) on Sunday, 20-Aug-2006 10:50:14

Hehehehehehe Jess. I felt the same way for a while. But then I thought. How would I feel if my best friend started hitting on my ex. I'd be jelis as anything. And if there friend is doing that. They obviously aren't a very good friend. That goes back to the post about dating your best friends ex I guess.

## Post 9 by Blue Velvet (I've got the platinum golden silver bronze poster award.) on Sunday, 20-Aug-2006 12:35:24

In college I actually dated my roommate's ex-boyfriend. Shortly after they broke up, he admitted he had always been attracted to me. So we tried dating for awhile, but nothing really came of it.
However, the whole situation allowed me to see a different side to my roommate. She turned into a psycho - trying to find me whenever she didn't know where I was just to see if I was with her ex. If I didn't go right back to the dorm after a class, she would go to the library looking for me to see if I was there. She even met me outside of some of my classes as soon as they ended. It was freaky.

## Post 10 by Marissapc2010 (Zone BBS is my Life) on Tuesday, 22-Aug-2006 0:09:50

I would hate it if I was the ex. I might turn the same way. I'll admit it, I'm a very, very jelis girl. And that would make me looze it I'm afrade. I think that's not write though. If your friend caredabout you any. They would at least talk to you a bit about it. I mean, just to see if it was a really big problem. you no?

## Post 11 by JH_Radio (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Friday, 25-Aug-2006 0:06:34

Becky why the hell would your roommate care whare you are? I mean the girl and the guy aren't going out anymore, and shouldn't she like have moved on? Or have I totilly lost it.

## Post 12 by Blue Velvet (I've got the platinum golden silver bronze poster award.) on Friday, 25-Aug-2006 0:45:15

No, she's the one who lost it. She knew he and I were going to start seeing each other and said she was okay with it, but obviously she wasn't. And not only did she start stalking me, she kept bothering his roommate to try to get information from him about us. So by the end of that college year, no one could stand being around her.