# should a gf or bf express his or her feelings toohis or her second best friend about not allowing him or her too bring a gf o

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by starfly (99956) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 5:06:58

Hi all, I have a prob that might need some answers. My gf has a second best girlfirend who does not lie me. She will bring her bf along but does not want me to come along. Should she found away to say something?

## Post 2 by mdyer1983 (I can't call it a day til I enter the zone BBS) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 10:21:13

I think maybe you should try talking to her and find out what the deal is and ask her why she doesn't want you to go with her. It just doesn't sound like a good friend if shwe does not want you to do stuff with her.

## Post 3 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 12:01:03

If she doesn't want your company with this lad, then itsis possible that those 2 are talking about you behind your back...nasty I know but it is a possiblity ...or else, she fears that this lad has feelings for you, he may have been showing signs of interest that you would be unaware of...talk to them both and demand a straight answer...

## Post 4 by Senior (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 12:01:43

So! what happens if your GF just takes you anyway? I don't know where it is your going but as I say, it's up to your GF to allow you to go with her not someone else's. I don't what the problem is between you and this person, if you elaborate it may be easier to provide advice, but as I say, it's up to your GF to sort it out.

## Post 5 by starfly (99956) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 12:09:20

I'll add more, well my gf says her friend lets call her k must have her way all the time and she wants to call the shots. My gf tells me she is to nice and is afraid to say anything because K might start crying and they have know eachother sense 4th grade. Truethly I feel left out and hard to believe she really wants me because of this. She says she does and she shows it but her friend some how has away of getting her to leave me out.

## Post 6 by Reads_Dots (Account disabled) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 14:25:46

Your gf should grow some balls. I wouldn't let any of my friends treat me or my bf like that. Sounds like this K is a spoiled little brat who needs to grow up, and the best thing your gf can do is to stand up to her. If not, you're going to start feeling left out and resentful of K and your gf. Sorry if this sounds harsh, I just have no use for controlling people and those who let themselves be controlled.

## Post 7 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 18:11:14

doesnt sound like a true friend...

## Post 8 by changedheart421 (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Monday, 25-Jul-2005 18:31:58

definitely does not sound like someone i wanna know

## Post 9 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Tuesday, 26-Jul-2005 10:29:56

K sounds seriously insecure I don't understand why no one else noticed that?..The need to be in control is a sure sign of her desperately low self esteem..she cries because she has found out it works, much like a toddler...you have to either break all ties with K, or help her to improve her self esteem and confidence then you might begin to see a change..but it will not happen overnight...

## Post 10 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Tuesday, 26-Jul-2005 10:30:19

K sounds seriously insecure I don't understand why no one else noticed that?..The need to be in control is a sure sign of her desperately low self esteem..she cries because she has found out it works, much like a toddler...you have to either break all ties with K, or help her to improve her self esteem and confidence then you might begin to see a change..but it will not happen overnight...

## Post 11 by Ukulele<3 (Try me... You know you want to.) on Tuesday, 26-Jul-2005 16:20:27

hmmm. I agree whole-heartedly with reads_dots. I would never let my friends bring their b/f's without me being allowed to bring mine. That just makes me feel lonely and uncomfortable. What I say is, your g/f should ditch that controlling bitch and come be my friend. heheheheheheh Hey, Starfly, I haven't seen her on yet. Tell her to pm me if she does come on.
*sexy*

## Post 12 by starfly (99956) on Thursday, 01-Sep-2005 14:44:28

Different topic
I know someone who might be getting into a relationship that he was in before. The relationship turned shitty. The young lady who is pursuing him about getting back with him is very inanimate about being his lady. This lady was controlling, pushy, and thought she know everything about blindness. Take inconsideration the topic about "knowing everything about blindness". She seems to have changed like, she listens too him more, takes what he has to say to heart, and does not push him around. He senses something about this lady in his gut that is not right. So what would you do in this situation? Would you stay away from her? Would you give her another chance? Keep in mind she has saved more than $200 to come and see him. She has also gotten gifts for him. Yet this person feels like he has no room to breath, still has deep feelings for a young lady out of Arkansas that is on here.

## Post 13 by Manwe (The Dark Lord) on Friday, 02-Sep-2005 4:55:57

Hi,
Well addressing the first problem. your gf should say pure and simple that if you can't come then she don't want to know. It's what I'd do, i'm not with anybody right now but if i was I'd definitely turn round and say no matter who it was, friend or family, that we are a unit, a team. you accept both of us or you don't. but if you don't that means neither. pure and simple. i got no time for that shit and this k needs a good seeing to being honest.

## Post 14 by kristabell (the Zone BBS remains forever my home page) on Thursday, 12-Jan-2006 15:26:03

shit my oppinion on this issue? My friend says my man can't go?? then damn it I am not going... U expect me 2 let ur man 2 go but not mine?? Is u out ur fuckin mind??? My man is apart of what I do and if u dont like it then fuck off!!! I can't stand people who says "o u cant go with me cuz my friend doesnt want u too." its like "u and ur man in a relationship so whatever u do he should b able to do too." and if n e 1 startz talkin shit then it is ur place as his woman to stick up for him "y tha fuck u dissin mah man for?? U have somethin to say to him then say it to his face cuz I am not gone listen to it!" What's wrong wit people now days???? But guys are just as guilty of not letting us do anything with them..... and, guys on here, don't say you arent cuz that would b a lie!