# Two Ways

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by Winterfresh (This is who I am, an what I am about. If you don't like it, too damn bad!!!) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 4:13:04

Ok, I'm dating this really awesome guy named Aaron. He's so sweet and he really likes me, but my friends swing two ways. Half of my friends approve, but half of them don't. They think he wants me for my looks only, but I don't know if it's true. What should I do?

## Post 2 by Stefan (Generic Zoner) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 5:09:06

if you think he's great, that's all that matters really. in the end, it's your decision.

## Post 3 by season (the invisible soul) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 5:21:21

no one can tell you who is the right one. just you, your own. what people can give you is an advice. you are the one who know him and you are the one who in love with him. how true he is, you know it yourself better than anyone else.

## Post 4 by Eponine (If you find a rare Gem, hold it tightly!) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 6:39:28

Only you can decide what is right for you. You have to be the one to judge that. See how he acts around you. Is he talking more about your body, or is he concerned with you as a person. Don't listen to what your friend say, you have to do what makes you happy. Good luck girl. Hugs.

## Post 5 by Ukulele<3 (Try me... You know you want to.) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 7:27:12

Agreed!!!
*sexy*

## Post 6 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 10:11:15

just do what you feel is right. good luck to you.

## Post 7 by Harp (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 11:11:58

WinterFresh. it sounds as though you have to decide whether you trust him or not! if you do then what anybody else thinks is errelevent! if on the other hand you don't then perhaps its you that ought to be asking these questions of yourself!
either way, its down to you and nobody else.
good luck.

## Post 8 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 11:12:26

observe him and get to know him, spend more time with him to see what type of guy he is and thats when you'll find out if he just likes you for your looks good luck. fallow your heart not what others say.

## Post 9 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 15:08:58

Well, exactly. NObody can tell you who is the right one, you have to try out. And only because yyour friends say that, it doesn't have to be true, and you only find out by trying out.

## Post 10 by Winterfresh (This is who I am, an what I am about. If you don't like it, too damn bad!!!) on Sunday, 03-Jul-2005 18:31:03

Thanks, Guys.

## Post 11 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Monday, 04-Jul-2005 11:45:48

Winterfresh: I would dump these superficial intolerant friends, because if they can't accept his sexuality, it wont be long before they find another fault, and then another, until you feel it would be better to resign yourself to their opinion...

## Post 12 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Monday, 04-Jul-2005 16:05:39

Goblin I totally agree.

## Post 13 by Eponine (If you find a rare Gem, hold it tightly!) on Monday, 04-Jul-2005 16:19:42

I agree with Goblin as well.

## Post 14 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Tuesday, 05-Jul-2005 9:46:52

I've been in this situation quite some time ago.

## Post 15 by Harp (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Tuesday, 05-Jul-2005 11:31:15

um, what on earth are you talking about goblin? she didn't say that her boyfriend swings both ways! lol. my god read the frigging posts properly before responding to them! what she said was that she was dating an awesome guy but that her friends swung both ways. meaning that some liked him and others didn't!
jesus! he ignores most of the users and then misinterprets the rest!
i just wish to inform everybody! right now my eyes are cast heavenward!

## Post 16 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Tuesday, 05-Jul-2005 11:34:52

um yeh where exactly did his sexuality come into the topic?

## Post 17 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 05-Jul-2005 14:46:52

Well she said her friends claimed that he would aproach people sexually or something like that. Well, if it's true or not is a different story.

## Post 18 by Harp (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Tuesday, 05-Jul-2005 15:21:11

um, no! she didn't say anything of the sort! all that she said was half of her friends did aprove of herseeing this guy while the other half thought that he only wanted her for her looks!
you needen't take my word for it! it's right there for all to see right at the top of the topic!

## Post 19 by Heavy Metal Girl 85 (Zone BBS is my Life) on Tuesday, 05-Jul-2005 16:51:06

you follow your heart.

## Post 20 by Winterfresh (This is who I am, an what I am about. If you don't like it, too damn bad!!!) on Tuesday, 05-Jul-2005 18:36:15

Actually, my friends that don't approve are xes. Lol. And they did say that he approaches people sexually, but all they want is to get me back.

## Post 21 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Wednesday, 06-Jul-2005 10:14:58

Then you might want to add vindictive to the list of their dubious attributes..I'm not getting at you but...if they are your friends I'd hate to see your enemies...

## Post 22 by sugarbaby (The voice of reason) on Wednesday, 06-Jul-2005 10:27:20

ok, well in my view I think that to tell someone to ditch their friends because they have said the guy is after a girl for her body only is a little harsh. after all, what if they're right. what if you knew a friend of yours was going out with someone and you thought the guy was only after them for their body, wouldn't you tell that friend? does that make you vindictive? I don't think it does. yes maybe the friends are wrong, the only person who really knows is you, and your partner. I think goblin is somewhat confused as sexuality, (as in the homosexual sense) did not enter this topic so I think he's perhaps going off on a different tangent to the rest of the posters here.

## Post 23 by Winterfresh (This is who I am, an what I am about. If you don't like it, too damn bad!!!) on Wednesday, 06-Jul-2005 17:40:12

Yah, but as I said theese friends are x bfs, and just want me back. I told them no no no no no no, and they don't get it still.

## Post 24 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Thursday, 07-Jul-2005 12:47:50

as I said they are childish ignorant and unable to cope with rejection just you carry on and ignore their tantrums...

## Post 25 by Winterfresh (This is who I am, an what I am about. If you don't like it, too damn bad!!!) on Tuesday, 12-Jul-2005 18:15:49

Thank you, Goblin I couldn't agree more.

## Post 26 by mdyer1983 (I can't call it a day til I enter the zone BBS) on Sunday, 24-Jul-2005 12:45:09

Hi Well you should follow your heart. If you love him then don't listen to what they are telling you. If you feel concern than you could talk to him and let him tell you how he feels about you and just try to follow your heart as I said before.

## Post 27 by changedheart421 (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Sunday, 24-Jul-2005 14:16:04

i agreee with everyone else. you should tell them friends to but out and that you are in love with this guy. if they can't deal with it then they are real friends.

## Post 28 by saiyan4414 (the Zone BBS remains forever my home page) on Tuesday, 23-Aug-2005 7:44:33

Pray about it and see what God says you should, and if you don't believe in God just listen to your heart and take into consideration what your friends are saying and you could talk to someone really close to the guy.

## Post 29 by Winterfresh (This is who I am, an what I am about. If you don't like it, too damn bad!!!) on Saturday, 27-Aug-2005 2:24:44

Well, I just thought I'd tell you guys what happened. It turns out that unfortunately my friends were right. He questioned my sexuallity cause I was hanging out with my girls. So, I dumped him.