# Which one is more disgusting?

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Monday, 18-Oct-2010 22:14:24

K, I asked this question in one of the other topics, but I figured it would be better to start a new one since I'm seriously curious to know what people think about this. Which one pisses you off, or makes you sick, or whatever more: When someone masterbates in public or has sex in public. Are they both repulsive or are they both fine or which one's worse? I wanna hear what guys and girls think of that because it really makes me curious.
Jessie

## Post 2 by SingerOfSongs (Heresy and apostasy is how progress is made.) on Monday, 18-Oct-2010 23:19:56

My rule with just about anything is as long as no one's causing harm to anyone, I'm not really going to care. I'll add for this particular situation that they should make sure to clean up after themselves.

## Post 3 by DevilishAnthony (Just go on and agree with me. You know you want to.) on Monday, 18-Oct-2010 23:56:49

same here. It doesn't bother me either way. If they're making any noise, I'll probably try to listen. I guess there really is a fine line, but for me, I'm not exactly sure where it is. For instance, if someone was having all out passionate naked sweaty sex in a large mall, right in a really crowded section, I think that's a bit much. To me though, maintaining a degree of discreetness seems a lot more erotic and sentual than just totally not giving a shit at all about surroundings.

## Post 4 by SilverLightning (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 0:40:44

It all depends on setting. If I go to the beach and see a couple having sex, I'll walk away and leave them alone, just like I hope they'd do for me. If I'm sitting in a movie theater and people are making out, if it isn't disturbing me, who cares. If I'm eating dinner though, and someone is getting bent over the next table, that might ruin my meal, so I'd have a problem with it. I don't care if someone does it, I've done it before, just don't do it where you can bother others. Bothering others isn't what makes it hot, being in public is what makes it hot.

## Post 5 by DevilishAnthony (Just go on and agree with me. You know you want to.) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 0:51:40

This is extremely well said. I couldn't agree more.

## Post 6 by cattleya (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 6:33:26

Agreed, neither is gross or whatever, just depends on how you handle them.

## Post 7 by OceanDream (An Ocean of Thoughts) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 8:25:31

I'm with the person who says it depends on the setting. In a restaurant? Please....don't, but if you're on the beach, go for it, I say.

## Post 8 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 8:37:23

ah, ok. But what about the back parking lot of the restaurant. You know, where everyone goes to smoke, then goes back to finish their meal? :) which ones worse there, or would both be fine? haha

## Post 9 by OceanDream (An Ocean of Thoughts) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 10:45:57

If I'm not out there, I don't care, and if i am, as long as they're not making it completely obvious, I still don't really care. But, if it gets to a point where it just can't be left alone, well, I guess both would be a little disturbing to me.

## Post 10 by Eleni21 (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 13:30:29

Neither would disturb me unless their were underage people around, the people doing it were underage or it was being done in a sacred place i.e. a temple, church etc. or a patriotic one. So long as no one is being harmed or forced into anything, it's all fine by me.

## Post 11 by Kathia (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 13:38:39

I personally prefer discretion and privacy but now and then the thought of doing it in a public place can certainly be arousing. I would enjoy the thrill of it I think as long as it didn't offend anyone like underage or whatever if they happened to be around. Either sex or masturbation is ok with me. Both are natural things. And as far as anyone else doing it with me around I dont think it would bother me unless it were somehow repulsive in some way.

## Post 12 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 13:47:32

both are ok with me, as long as it doesn't harm anyone.

## Post 13 by Miss M (move over school!) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 20:48:40

I'd rather deal with a couple having sex in public than someone masturbating. God knows what they're thinking if they're going it solo; at least you know the couple are paying attention to each other. That being said, neither please. Nobody else gives a damn about how great your sex life is or is not.

## Post 14 by Blue Velvet (I've got the platinum golden silver bronze poster award.) on Tuesday, 19-Oct-2010 22:01:26

Tiffanitsa's post reminded me of something that happened a few years ago. A group of female co-workers who were good friends and always took at least one trip together every year came across a guy masturbating in some sort of church or temple they were visiting. I find something like that pretty disgusting. He didn't even stop or look embarrassed when he saw them noticing what he was doing.
As far as sex in public places, I have mixed feelings about that. If you are on a beach or some place where there are no people around when you start out, then it's OK even if some people come walking along later. But doing it in a very public place where there are always lots of people, then I say go get a room.

## Post 15 by Eleni21 (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Wednesday, 20-Oct-2010 14:11:35

I don't think I could ever do it myself in a place that public. I'd rather keep that part of me for the bedroom or a place where only my partner and I would be. But I guess some people crave that kind of attention. To be fair, though, there are establishments for such things.

## Post 16 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Wednesday, 20-Oct-2010 16:26:15

for me, it wouldn't be that I'm drawing attention to myself; rather, the thrill of being bad, if you will.

## Post 17 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 20-Oct-2010 16:57:49

yeah I agree with you Hun. That's what it is for me. I love the adrenaline rush of being all naughty. lol, I don't masterbate in public though. I think that looks worse, to answer my own question. A little creapy. :)

## Post 18 by guitargod1 (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Wednesday, 20-Oct-2010 18:44:23

I think either can be okay, but, it depends on the setting. Also, as someone else noted, as long as there are no minors around.

## Post 19 by Thunderstorm (HotIndian!) on Wednesday, 20-Oct-2010 20:02:41

I personally not interested in doing my down under practical in publick.
On the other hand, I still got that ambition of Seashore fantacy once at least.
meanwhile, if I get an opportunity, and even if that is in publick, I'll surely overcome my shyness as long as I'm not hearing any human noice around.
Raaj.

## Post 20 by Elenhiia (Feather'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr for president!) on Thursday, 21-Oct-2010 16:55:12

This reminds me of a time when I was about nine. I was at my stepsister's half-brother's birthday party and we were at a big park near here called Valley of the Moon, I think, and there's a baseball diamond nearby. My stepsister and I were wandering around outtide the fence when we spotted a guy under a tree, dick out completely, masturbating. So we turned around and left. Turns out when we gave the description, he was following us and hid, listening. Later we went off exploring again, after we escaped my father's notice, and he chased us back to within sight of the party, and there he stopped just out of "eyeshot" if you will, along a line of trees beyond the playground. The cops found him hiding later and it turned out he was a known pedophile. so as long as it's not bugging anyone, have sex, but agreed, god knows what someone who is masturbating in public is thinking.

## Post 21 by LeoGuardian (You mean there is something outside of this room with my computer in it?) on Thursday, 21-Oct-2010 16:58:30

The last post illustrates the importance of girls traveling in groups rather than alone. Yes pedophiles are predators, but like most lower life forms invested in predation, they are first cowards.
Running away, making noise, generally acting confident causes them to back off usually. But if one is alone, she's more likely to be preyed upon.

## Post 22 by Eleni21 (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Thursday, 21-Oct-2010 17:07:33

That's why it's important to teach self-defense starting at a very young age, and possibly even to carry a small knife, pepper spray or even alarm when older. I'd say some kind of chemical that could make the person unconscious would be even better. I'm not sure how much of this would be practical for the blind, so in our case, especially at night or when really young or really old, it's probably best to travel with someone.

## Post 23 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 8:28:06

ok, if you know me @ all, you're gonna here this a lot. Nothing can go wrong if you gotta gun or a knife. Even a bottle of pepper spray is fine. I don't leave the house without my gun in a belt holster and a small pocket knife in my pocket. When I was a kid I carried around a bottle of pepper spray, and I actually had to use it once. If a woman has a whepon on her, in sadly most women don't, it's gonna be fine. All you gotta do is whip it out and they don't wanna fuck with you. haha

## Post 24 by Thunderstorm (HotIndian!) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 10:01:31

o my! this topic is getting diverted.
so do ya say the person who's trying to have ... with you should overcome your nife and etc etc?
Now I'm scared of american chicks.
Raaj.

## Post 25 by Eleni21 (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 12:07:44

I don't consider myself American but I must agree with you there. Still, I highly doubt that anyone will give a gun to a totally blind person, and some states, like NJ, have consealed weapons laws. Fuck, they even have problems with AirSoft guns!

## Post 26 by cattleya (Help me, I'm stuck to my chair!) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 17:08:23

You would be surprised what a knife alone can do...When I was first going to a university...18 and alone, I carried a knife because I had attracted a pervert...But, the knife convinced him that I was not a good bet...But now, I do not usually have to worry about such...I generally travel with my husband, and one look at him persuaids the perverts otherwise...Large and looks mean, LOL.

## Post 27 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 19:14:08

hahaha, it's amusing how easily scared people are at the word gun. lol, if a guy on the street wants to have sex with me I will shoot him. :) just playing, don't piss your pants or anything please. But seriously, too many women run around to bars and clubs @ 1:00 AM without a damn thing to defend themselves and their family wonders why they were raped and strengled that night. Creapy people who masterbate in public will get ya girl. lol

## Post 28 by Eleni21 (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 19:33:26

I'd rather cut it off and let him live with the consequences. But only if I'm in a good mood. *smile* I'm not a vergin, of course, but I take my body very seriously.

## Post 29 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 20:05:22

I'm glad many of you are able to defend yourselves, but there are some of us who can't. I just felt I had to point that out.

## Post 30 by OceanDream (An Ocean of Thoughts) on Friday, 22-Oct-2010 20:20:21

In that case, going with your gut instincts is key.

## Post 31 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Saturday, 23-Oct-2010 10:28:00

I know.

## Post 32 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Saturday, 23-Oct-2010 12:27:27

wow, awkward ... teehee, I didn't mean it.

## Post 33 by OceanDream (An Ocean of Thoughts) on Saturday, 23-Oct-2010 13:56:41

You didn't mean what?

## Post 34 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Saturday, 23-Oct-2010 16:05:37

just ... haha, some people are so serious that it's just ... Oh my God funny. lol, sorry, I didn't mean to offend you Baby, I ain't sure how I did or if I did, it's kinda hard to tell with some people, but just ... sorry. hahaha

## Post 35 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Saturday, 23-Oct-2010 17:01:01

anyway, my bad. I didn't mean to make a big commotion over gun safety. That's not what this is about. I'm just sayin that more women should have a half a mind to carry around a little protection because there are too many women who don't and get raped by public masterbating psychos like we're talkin about. I don't wanna tell anyone they're stupid for not carrying a gun or something like it, but ... I won't say anything. hahaha
I think that men who masterbate in public are a lot creapier than people who just have sex in public. That's the jist of what I'm trying to say,k? ok. Don't get all peepee hurt over it. there's a reason why I do everything.
Jessie

## Post 36 by OceanDream (An Ocean of Thoughts) on Saturday, 23-Oct-2010 17:15:08

Yeah. I know what you mean about the masturbating in public thing. I'll say this at least. I'd be more likely to wonder about that than I would about people having sex in public. I'm not against carrying weapons, just as long as you use them wisely.

## Post 37 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Saturday, 23-Oct-2010 21:43:02

Men who masterbate in public look strange to me, and they also look really perverted, lonely or a little wrong in the head. lol
That's why I started this discussion. I thought that was interesting what some people said about that. A lot of people kinda said like "Both are fine" or "both are bad" or whatever, but I personally think that a guy, or woman for that matter, masterbating in front of everyone look just terribly strange. Maybe that's just my oppinion though. Maybe it's not quite as strange as I think it is. haha, that took a wrong turn some place, but that's all I'm trying to say, and that's all I was wondering. haha, this is amusing to me
Jessie

## Post 38 by Thunderstorm (HotIndian!) on Sunday, 24-Oct-2010 4:34:29

I can surely say I'm not brave enough to do such things in publick. even though I admit I'm dirty in private. lol.
Raaj.

## Post 39 by DevilishAnthony (Just go on and agree with me. You know you want to.) on Sunday, 24-Oct-2010 7:57:50

If someone is masturbating in public and making an obvious effort to be seen, it strikes me more as a cry of despiration.
If someone is very discreetly doing it, with a chance that people might not even realize what's up, that's a bit sexy and perhaps a bit misterious, but then again, I guess I'm a freak at heart, so...

## Post 40 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Sunday, 24-Oct-2010 10:28:16

Jessie, I wasn't offended by your saying people should carry weapons; I was simply pointing out that not everyojne can fight for themselves physically, that's all.

## Post 41 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Sunday, 24-Oct-2010 12:35:50

I wasn't appologizing to you Darlin, but ok. I was just putting out an appology to keep from getting in a fight over something I ain't sure what. haha, you never know with some people. Some of 'em get so damn pissed so damn fast.

## Post 42 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Sunday, 24-Oct-2010 12:40:43

excuse the typo in my last post.
Jessie, I completely agree. to each their own, I guess.

## Post 43 by margorp (I've got the gold prolific poster award, now is there a gold cup for me?) on Monday, 25-Oct-2010 16:05:55

Okay I must be sick in the head because neether one bothers me all that much. Do what you will, I say.

## Post 44 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Monday, 25-Oct-2010 16:10:43

I'm with the last poster.

## Post 45 by OceanDream (An Ocean of Thoughts) on Monday, 25-Oct-2010 17:00:55

I don't think it's fair to jump to conclusion that just because someone is masturbating or having sex in public, they're a petifile. It's when they start staring at people, following them, and other such things that makes me wonder.

## Post 46 by Eleni21 (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Monday, 25-Oct-2010 18:13:13

Totally agreed. That kind of behaviour is truly out of line. Besides, I bet there are many women with ben wa balls or vibrating underwear out there, probably some men with fun stuff too. They're doing the same thing, just very discretely.

## Post 47 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Monday, 25-Oct-2010 22:32:32

yeah, but doesn't it creap you out at least a little when you see a guy sitting on a park bench with his dick in his hands shooting and grunting for everyone to see? Wouldn't that be a little more ... uh, say, disturbing than a man and a woman behind a dumpster doing the business? Like I said, it might just be me, but I don't know, that's why it makes me curious I guess. lol, :)

## Post 48 by Thunderstorm (HotIndian!) on Monday, 25-Oct-2010 23:29:08

generally, these are known as down under business. which means not an open business. so there.
Raaj.

## Post 49 by OceanDream (An Ocean of Thoughts) on Tuesday, 26-Oct-2010 8:59:17

Like I said, if the person is going out of his or her way to make sure people see, that's a little disturbing, but if they're just doing it, keeping to themselves, and not appearing to care whether or not people see, that's fine. If it really bothers me that much, I'll walk away and leave them to it. Personally, I'd prefer to leave that type of thing for home, but if others choose not to, that's their business, not mine.

## Post 50 by margorp (I've got the gold prolific poster award, now is there a gold cup for me?) on Tuesday, 26-Oct-2010 11:09:28

Well if some man or woman is on a park bench with pants down...well then you have to wonder. Yes, you wonder if they are looking at kids or whatever. But if they're not doing that and just going about there business so be it. After all, such things are natural. Mind you, I will not be sitting on that bench unless it gets a good scrub down but still.

## Post 51 by Elenhiia (Feather'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr'rr for president!) on Tuesday, 26-Oct-2010 14:00:42

Behind a dumpster? Please, how trailer trash can one person be? There are better public plcaes to have sex. lmao I did that deliberately and with no offense meant, don't get ya panties in a wad.
Anyway, I have a good people sense, it's never failed me once, so I can tell before I see someone masturbating in public whether they're creepy. Of course, if that's my first impression, you get the reaction you get.

## Post 52 by margorp (I've got the gold prolific poster award, now is there a gold cup for me?) on Tuesday, 26-Oct-2010 15:05:14

exactly. Lots of creepy people keep things behind closed doors.

## Post 53 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Tuesday, 26-Oct-2010 22:14:16

hahaha, k. cool. :) I go with it lol

## Post 54 by starfly (99956) on Tuesday, 26-Oct-2010 22:33:57

for women I give one advice! when beeing confrunted what ever you do do not freeze. "freeze equals death." Trust me that is a promise. As for this topic, I am for sex in public b but bee careful for those who pray upon people.

## Post 55 by margorp (I've got the gold prolific poster award, now is there a gold cup for me?) on Tuesday, 26-Oct-2010 23:05:45

yes, be ware of th psychos :)

## Post 56 by rebelwoman (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 27-Oct-2010 8:11:22

plenty of psychos. ehem ... chuck chuck boom. lol

## Post 57 by margorp (I've got the gold prolific poster award, now is there a gold cup for me?) on Thursday, 28-Oct-2010 15:07:30

haha.