# Fat chick or skinny chick

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by jessmonsilva (Taking over the boards, one topic at a time.) on Wednesday, 21-Sep-2005 23:47:46

So if you were presented with a fat chick or a skinny chick, which would you choose to date?

## Post 2 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 0:14:50

The fat chick since she can cook, as long as she isn't over 200 pounds.

## Post 3 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 2:30:37

lol blindguy that was pretty clever thinking actually hahahaha Lol Lol

## Post 4 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 2:41:36

Well, I am a chick and I still post here. I have to say I am rather ... well, well-fed? Lol. Skinny is not really good, I don't like it. Lol. I just love my chocollate or my macdonalds food, or food in general.

## Post 5 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 8:51:02

There's no answer to that. ;) People just can't be as shallow as to just take that into consideration when they want to be with someone. The only problems I have with fat is if the person is clearly not taking care of herself and does not want to work out or do anything about it, so if she's really fat and she is just proud of it then I would definitely have issues with that. Too skinny is not so nice either actually, I think the ideal is somewhere in between sizes, may be 4 to 10 or something like that. ;) But, yeah, always important if your girl can cook &LT;grin> I think it's a good point. *grin*
cheers
-B

## Post 6 by Ukulele<3 (Try me... You know you want to.) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 10:39:18

Um, wow! I would never go out with any guy who picks their woman by their looks. lol Shouldn't it depend on their personality?
*sexy*

## Post 7 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 11:26:15

sexy, but sometimes the way a person looks says a lot about their personality. I e.g. am attracted to ambition and drive and making things happen for yourself, people like that I just find really attractive, and those people generally dress good because they want to make an impression, are reasonably fit, because they care and they want to be active so that already makes me attracted to them. Not that I couldn't be attracted to other types but this definitely matters a lot to me.
Cheers
-B

## Post 8 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 12:42:05

Its very general question is there no room for diversity. Personally I don't like the idea of holding anyone less than 8 stone,thinness turns me off..so someone like Spohie Dahl, before she conformed to the vacuous superficiality of the bitchy model world...would suit me fine..

## Post 9 by PorkInCider (Wind assisted.) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 15:11:00

I would choose based on personality, though I guess we all have our prefferences. However, I've also been proved in the past that you can fall for someone physically the opposite to what you'd normally think of as being your prefered type.

## Post 10 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Thursday, 22-Sep-2005 19:19:57

Lol yep a guy who cares about their girls' looks is bad news!

## Post 11 by Inesle1987 (Account disabled) on Friday, 23-Sep-2005 2:12:25

Michelle, but some sighted people do that. I agree with you of course, but others don't.

## Post 12 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Friday, 23-Sep-2005 9:17:45

Absolutely I became really pissed off with these superficial eejits who accused Sophie of being fat..better to be a healthy weight as she used to be, than to resemble a prisoner of Auschwitz.

## Post 13 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Friday, 23-Sep-2005 9:20:56

medium! grin that's safe isn't it?

## Post 14 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Friday, 23-Sep-2005 12:12:35

If I go out with a girl I expect her to be presentable. Not some 400 pound horse who makes no effort to maintain any sembalance of higeen.

## Post 15 by chelslicious (like it or not, I'm gonna say what I mean. all the time.) on Friday, 23-Sep-2005 20:51:21

i'd rather my girl be just right, meaning not too skinny, or not too fat.

## Post 16 by saiyan4414 (the Zone BBS remains forever my home page) on Monday, 26-Sep-2005 0:33:19

I'm go on personality, but I wouldn't want her to be to fat like 300 or 400 lbs. But I really have no preference other than than, but I kinda have a thing for Hispanics weird as that may sound, and I'm not trying to be racial or anything like that.

## Post 17 by Wraith (Prince of Chaos) on Monday, 26-Sep-2005 0:53:49

Here are my requirements for dating someone: Must be at least 5'6", have long black hair, soft brown eyes, slender hands, no piercings or tattoos (must keep the skin flawless), must weigh no more than 120 LBS, must be willing to spend all of their money on me whilst expecting none in return, must be willing to say "yes master" whenever I give a command, must wear 2-inch long skirts, have at least a DD cup size, go commando, and... oh, yes, did I mention that that person cannot be a woman (because a woman), or a man (cuz men are bastards and I'm not gay)?
Pooh on dating... I'll just love myself! Mwuahahahaha!

## Post 18 by jessmonsilva (Taking over the boards, one topic at a time.) on Monday, 26-Sep-2005 4:52:11

Hmmm, I must agree, hispanics are hot. Lol. The one thing that really kind of makes me laugh in a way, is how someone can have a really nice, pretty guy or chick, and she/he would love that person for who he/she is, and everything like that. And then, he or she chooses someone who is exactly the opposite. Well, to each their own. and in some people's cases, beggars can't be choosers.
Peace
Jess

## Post 19 by Harp (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Monday, 26-Sep-2005 5:16:30

i agree that women can be too skinny though. that is horible in my view. somewhere in between is good for me.. o and blindguy? just because a woman is fat doesn't mean she can cook. only that she can eat!

## Post 20 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Monday, 26-Sep-2005 5:46:42

I'd only make such a shallow judgement call if the person had no personality, in which case I probably wouldn't be considering them anyway. Personality with compatibility and communication are the keys. Unfortunately it seems that I'm in the minority with this viewpoint.

## Post 21 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Tuesday, 27-Sep-2005 10:25:27

No Chris I agree I have been out with a 9 stone girl who resembled a human surf board, with the personality to match..400 pounds hmm ok thats excessive.. but why should you be bothered by the weight when you cant feckin see her or him.

## Post 22 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Tuesday, 27-Sep-2005 11:07:45

umm, duh, but you can feel them, but seeing as your not blind you wouldn't know!

## Post 23 by wildebrew (We promised the world we'd tame it, what were we hoping for?) on Tuesday, 27-Sep-2005 11:10:11

Goblin, last time we checked we can feel the person we're with so I think if excessively skinny or fat bothers you with someone you re that intimid with it's an issue. I don't think I am superficila but to me looks matter, not the looks that you cannot control such as, perhaps, big nose or short chubby fingers or the "wrong" hair color or something, but how you present yourself is very important and I am attracted to ambition and girls who are self confidenct without being egotistiical and they take good care of themselves, like to dress nicely not be excessively fat or skinny I think, and those are features that I am definitely attracted to. I think it's just a matter of having preferences and I don't see why that would be wrong and, yeah, BlindGuy, in all actuality a fat chic may mean she has never cooked in her life, just popped into BurgerKing or Pizza Hut and then had some ice cream when she felt a bit of a need, so I wouldn't use that as a deciding factor man, you might end up disappointed.
cheers
-C

## Post 24 by Ukulele<3 (Try me... You know you want to.) on Tuesday, 27-Sep-2005 11:59:54

hehhehehe I don't know about fat chicks or skinny chicks but I'd personally go for the man's personality more than anything. hehehe And if he just happens to be fat, then all the good for him!!! He can keep me warm at night, hold my whole body when I am scared, eat whatever I place in front of him, (cooking is something I semi-enjoy practicing) give me a partner to work out with, I'll get more body to play with..., and he won't tell me what to eat or what not to eat!!! Hiew!! That last one was a really good comment. hehehehe I won't feel so inferior if I were with him. lolol
*sexy*

## Post 25 by PorkInCider (Wind assisted.) on Tuesday, 27-Sep-2005 12:05:09

Goblin, it just goes to show that you have no standards, if you come here and say that she had both body and personality of a serf board. You said you went out with her, which constitutes more than a shag. I can understand people shagging a woman like that, but going out with them? and it's the personality I'm worried about here. Wow! you astound me sometimes.

## Post 26 by icequeen (move over school!) on Tuesday, 27-Sep-2005 14:37:34

I think we as women should take care of ourselves and look good because it says a lot about one, it makes one feel good about themself as well.
If someone is fat, the first reaction is to be repulsed, but I tend to see someone who is in great emotional pain or distress, and needs to get professional help in the shrink office and in the gym. It is fact that fat people, are almost always fat because of underlying emotional problems.
That being said, I am uncomfortable with how thin pop culture tells women they should be.
So the bottom line is be healthy, take good care of oneself.

## Post 27 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Wednesday, 28-Sep-2005 10:20:35

Ice Queen I agree to a point but in saying that are you taking care of yourself to improve your self esteem or only for your health, if you gained an extra 100 pound or so how would you feel. It's easy to judge people who are fat by giving the old and very bad advice oh yes you need to go to the gym lardarse when in fact, the strain on an overweight body from sudden exercise, may well cause a major heart attack. A gradual decrease in their unhealthy diet and a gradual increase in exercise mainly walking then building up to swimming helps the person lose weight and allows them to keep it off. And in case you start yelling I'm almost 6ft and 170 very fit pounds ..

## Post 28 by Siriusly Severus (The ESTJ 1w9 3w4 6w7 The Taskmaste) on Friday, 26-Jun-2009 2:44:43

Which ever could think better.

## Post 29 by rich (Newborn Zoner) on Friday, 26-Jun-2009 16:11:00

Are you serious? This is such a no brainer... call me superficial or shallow, but there is nothing attractive about being overweight. I've been with both types, and all the points you guys make are true. With a healthy body usually comes a healthier mind, confidence and you don't have to be embarassed to bring her around your friends.