# first impressions

Category: Dating and Relationships

## Post 1 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Thursday, 01-Sep-2005 19:00:59

hey you girls and guys out there. when you meet someone new. do you base your judgments on the first time you meet them? to tell if you like or not like that person. i mean do you base everything in the first meeting or do you give it time.
i base my judgments about someone in two ways. one is in the first meeting and the second way is how we are when were hanging out. looks sure. good looking people are fun, but looks can be decieving. personality. yeah right. but i base most of my judgments on how good the chemistry is.
nice voice, guy cologne, and how fun he is.
where do you base your judgments? ??

## Post 2 by saiyan4414 (the Zone BBS remains forever my home page) on Thursday, 01-Sep-2005 19:49:38

I base mine on there personality and sometimes on the first meeting, or the next couple meetings.

## Post 3 by krisme (Ancient Zoner) on Friday, 02-Sep-2005 1:16:50

I try not to judge too much by first impressions. When I first met my current bf, I thought he was quiet and shy and indecisive. But now we've been together almost five months, he's opened up a good deal, and I've realized that you learn a lot more about a person once you've spent more time together.

## Post 4 by Goblin (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Friday, 02-Sep-2005 9:40:38

I give it time as I'm not what you would call judgemental..they would have to be highly obnoxious for me to give up after the first meeting..

## Post 5 by Manwe (The Dark Lord) on Friday, 02-Sep-2005 10:57:23

I like to see how compatible you are after a few times. it's hard to judge that I think after only meating once.

## Post 6 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Friday, 02-Sep-2005 16:22:50

i like to hang out with someone for the second time if he was nice and pleasant the first time, but yup i agree wiht all of you all. i give it time i dont easily judge someone by just talking to them the first time and personality are always a good thing to start with.

## Post 7 by Manwe (The Dark Lord) on Friday, 02-Sep-2005 16:25:28

yup always the first place to start.

## Post 8 by Siriusly Severus (The ESTJ 1w9 3w4 6w7 The Taskmaste) on Friday, 26-Jun-2009 2:16:18

It depends how deep that impression goes. If he's rough and stupid in the first place, then, obviously no, but if he is nutral or even nice, I'll wait and see through out our meetings.