    #I ,,TE5 ,,PREGNANCY3 8,I'M #AC
[A       YE>S OLD & ,I'M PREGNANT40

,,DE> ,,J]RY1
  ,AT AGE #AD ,I LO/ MY VIRG9;Y4 ,N \ (
PE] PRESSURE B \ ( IGNOR.E4 ,I 0 NAIVE &
N"E KNEW OR WOND]$ :AT 0 "R OR WR;G4 ,N[
,I D1 B X'S TOO LATE4 ,I'VE _H SEX )
SEV5 DI6]5T GUYS4 ,TWO ( !M 7 VIRG9S4 ,I
FEEL BAD N[ T ,I 9VAD$ _! VIRG9;Y4 ,"O (
!M IS MY PRES5T BOYFR4 ,WE H _H SEX #BA
"TS4 ,ALM HALF ! "T WE'VE US$ A 3DOM4 ,I
NE$ "S ADVICE4
      ,,L9DSAY
,,DE> ,,J]RY1
  ,I'M #AC YE>S OLD & ,I'M PREGNANT4 ,I
0 DRUNK &A GUY TOOK ADVANTAGE ( ME4 ,I
USE 6D DRUGS & DR9K4 ,I DON'T N[ 2C ,I
WANT A H1L?Y BABY4 ,I'M FIVE MON?S AL;G
B MY DAD WON'T LET ME KEEP ! BABY1 & T
IS ! MO/ IMPORTANT ?+ 6ME4 ,I DON'T "K
:AT 6D4 ,I'M S AL"O4 ,I HATE MY DAD =
:AT HE IS DO+ 6ME4 ,I WANT 6GET 6SEE MY
BABY1 6HOLD X & LOVE X4 ,PL1SE HELP ME4
      ,,KATIE
,,DE> ,,MR4 ,,JOHN/ON1
  ,TWO YE>S AGO ,I FELL 9 LOVE ) ,B>RY4
,HE N"E LOV$ ME ?\<4 ,S ,I 0 DET]M9$
6MAKE HM LOVE ME4 ,I FELL 96A DEEP
DEPRES.N4 ,I %UT MY FAMILY \ & />T$
FAIL+ 9 S*OOL4 ,!N ( C\RSE CAME ALCOHOL
& DRUGS4 ,"O NI<T ,I 0 DRUNK & K9D ( \ (
X4 ,I 0 SCR1M+ & CRY+ AT ,B>RY 6LOVE ME
& HE SD1 8,MAYBE "S"D40 ,T NI<T ,I LO/
MY VIRG9;Y AT AGE #AE4 ,N[ ,I FEEL S
DIRTY4

      ,,K>M9
,,DE> ,,J]RY1
  ,I H N"E DRANK1 D"O DRUGS1 OR _H SEX4
,B ,I FEEL S M* PRESSURE F MY FRS 6D ^!
?+S4 ,USU,Y :5 Y SAY "EY"O IS DO+ X Y
?9K "EY"O RE,Y ISN'T4 ,B ,I SWE>1 :5 X
-ES 6SEX "EY"O IS DO+ X6 ,I J W5T 6MY
FR'S "PY4 ,ALCOHOL 0 "EY":1 & P 7 HAV+
SEX "R "! ON ! FLOOR4 ,"O ( MY FRS CAME
UP 6ME & SD1 8,TI6ANY1 ,I H F9,Y F.D A
WAY 6=GET "EY?+3 SEX & ALCOHOL40 ,%E 0 A
VIRG9 UNTIL T NI<T4 ,%E GOT LAID 0T5
GUYS T NI<T4
      ,,TI6ANY
,,DE> ,,J]RY1
  ,LA/ YE> 9 ! EI<? GRADE ,I GOT MIX$ UP
9 ! WR;G CR[D4 ,I TRI$ SPE$ TWICE4 ,!N
,I />T$ SKIPP+ S*OOL ) MY FRS4 ,"O "D :5
,I SKIPP$ ,I W5T (F ) ? GUY & LO/ MY
VIRG9;Y 6HM4 ,HE WASN'T ANY?+ SPECIAL4
      ,,AMB]
,,DE> ,,MR4 ,,JOHN/ON1
  ,Z A HI< S*OOL S5IOR ,I 0 LOOK+ =W>D
6GRADU,N4 ,! KIDS AT S*OOL H ALW T1S$ ME
= 2+ S /RAI<T4 ,I 2GAN ! S*OOL YE> 2+ !
ONLY VIRG9 9 MY CLASS1 Z F> Z ,I "K4 ,I
GUESS ,I GOT 4C\RAG$ & FELL 96! TRAP (
WANT+ 62 L "EY"O ELSE4 ,SL[LY1 ,I C'T
EXPLA9 :Y1 ,I 2GAN GIV+ 9 6MY BOYFR'S
SEXUAL DEM&S4 ,N[ ,I WI% ,I _H N"E MET ?
GUY4 ,2+ L "EY"O ELSE ISN'T :AT ,I ?"\ X
WD BE4 ,! KIDS / T1SE ME 2C !Y ?9K ,I'M
/ A VIRG94 ,T J MAKES ME FEEL WORSE4
      ,,M>Y ,,KAY

,,DE> ,,J]RY1
  ,"EY"O AT S*OOL HATES ME4 ,I ?9K T IF
,I WASN'T A VIRG9 ,I WD H M FRS4 ,I
DON'T FIT IN4 ,ALM ALL ! GIRLS 9 MY
S*OOL H _H SEX4 ,_M ( !M H GOTT5
PREGNANT4 ,"S H _H ABOR;NS & "S KEPT _!
BABIES4 ,I WANT A BABY S BAD ,J]RY4 ,A
BABY WD PUT "S JOY 96MY LIFE4 ,NO?+ ELSE
SEEMS 62 "W+4
      ,,C>RIE
,,DE> ,,J]RY1
  ,I AM #AD YE>S OLD & ,I'M / A VIRG94
,I WANT 6SAVE MYF =! HUSB& ,I W F9D
"S"D1 B ,I AM FEEL+ A LOT ( PRESSURE
6GIVE IN4 ,I ALM LO/ MY VIRG9;Y A YE> &A
HALF AGO4 ,I BACK$ AWAY AT ! LA/ M9UTE4
,"! IS RE,Y NO "O ,I C TALK 6AB MY
FEEL+S4
      ,JOY
,J]RY1
  ,I _H SEX S _M "TS 2F ! SIX? GRADE T
,I C'T EV5 REMEMB] ALL MY "PN]S4 ,DUR+ !
N9? GRADE ,I _H SEV5TY-SIX SEXUAL
5C.T]S4 ,I "K T S.DS RIDICUL\S1 B ,I DID
X4 ,9 HI< S*OOL1 ,I GOT 96LOTS ( TR\#4
,( C\RSE1 ! FACT T ,I _H SEX ) ?REE ( MY
T1*]S DIDN'T HELP4 ,I'M RE,Y SC>$4 ,I
FEEL S M* GUILT1 %AME1 ANG]1 & FAILURE4
      ,,%>ON
,,DE> ,,J]RY1
  ,MY LIFE RE,Y />T$ GO+ D[NHILL 9 !
SEV5? GRADE :5 MY "F DI$4 ,I />T$ HAV+ A
LOT ( FAMILY PRO#MS4 ,I RE,Y MESS$ UP
BAD4 ,"H ,I AM #AD YE>S OLD & PREGNANT4
,J :AT ,I RE,Y NE$$4 ,Y ALW ?9K 8X W N"E
HAPP5 6ME01 B X DID4
      ,,MI*ELLE
,,DE> ,,J]RY4
  ,I H SLEPT ) #AF GUYS4 ,I'VE BE5 LAID
#IH "TS4 ,I GUESS T MAKES ME A SLUT4 ,9
! LA/ YE> ,I'VE ?"\ ( SUICIDE 3/ANTLY4
,Z ( N[ X'S BE5 A MON? &A HALF S9CE MY
LA/ SEXUAL 5C.T]4 ,I HOPE X /AYS T WAY4
      ,,ROB9
,,DE> ,,MR4 ,,JOHN/ON1
  ,! O!R "D 9 S*OOL A GUY 9 MY CLASS _H
A ;,T-%IRT ON T SD1 8,I'M ,N ,DO9',X60
,X 0 REF]+ 6SEX4 ,"O GUY MADE FUN ( HM =
WE>+ X1 S ,I DEF5D$ ! GUY )! %IRT4
,SU45LY ! :OLE CLASS 0 LI/5+4
      ,,HUT*
                99 99 99
  ,:5 ,I R1D ?IRTE5-YE>-OLD ,KATIE'S LR1
,I CDN'T HELP B NOTICE ! IRONY4 ,KATIE
KNEW H[ 6H SEX B CDN'T EV5 SPELL !
RESULTS ( H] SEXUAL;Y4 ,L _M O!R
TE5AG]S1 %E "U/&S ! ME*ANICS ( SEXUAL
9T]C\RSE B IS TOT,Y UNPREP>$ 6D1L )!
EMO;NAL1 SOCIAL1 & _SUAL 3SEQU;ES (
8MAK+ LOVE40 ,9 MO/ CASES1 ^! KIDS >5'T
MAK+ ANY?+ B BABIES4
  ,S X GOES ) M ?AN ELEV5 MILLION SEXU,Y
ACTIVE TE5S4 ,5C\RAG$ 0A SEXU,Y EXPLICIT
5VIRON;T1 !Y H SEX B >E LEFT ) ALL !

BA7AGE T -ES ) PROMISCU;Y3 GUILT1
PREGNANCY1 41SE1 PREMATURE M>RIAGE1 & L[
SELF-E/EEM4
  ,SURGEON ,G5]AL ,ANTONIA ,NOVELLO W>NS
T M ?AN TWO-?IRDS ( ,U4,S4 ADOLESC5TS W
2 SEXU,Y ACTIVE 2F !Y L1VE HI< S*OOL4
,0AGE EI<TE5 M ?AN #FJ P]C5T (! GUYS &
ALM HALF ! GIRLS W H EXP]I;ED SEXUAL
9T]C\RSE4 ,SAYS ,SURGEON ,G5]AL
,NOVELLO1 8,! E/IMAT$ AV]AGE AGE = F/
9T]C\RSE IS SIXTE5 6TW5TY 9 "S URBAN
>1S4 ,M ?AN #BJ P]C5T ( HI< S*OOL /UD5TS
H _H F\R OR M "PN]S4 ,ANAL 9T]C\RSE--A
LIKELY ,,HIV 9FEC;N RISK FACTOR--MAY
9VOLVE #AJ P]C5T 6#BF P]C5T ( ALL SEXU,Y
ACTIVE ADOLESC5TS40
  ,3SID] "S (! F9D+S ( AN EXT5SIVE
SURVEY 3DUCT$ 0,SEV5TE5 MAGAZ9E1 !
MAGAZ9E ( *OICE = MI4LE & UPP]-MI4LE
CLASS TE5AGE GIRLS3
  --,ONLY #BA P]C5T (! GIRLS & #AE P]C5T
(! GUYS ?9K T PREM>ITAL SEX IS A BAD
IDEA = "EY"O4
  --,IN #AIHD1 #ED P]C5T ( GIRLS AGES
#AH 6#AI _H SEX2 9 #AIIA1 T NUMB] HAS
JUMP$ 6#GA P]C5T4
  --,SIX \ ( T5 SEXU,Y ACTIVE TE5S WORRY
AB GETT+ ,,AIDS4
  --,( ^? :O'VE _H SEX1 ! AV]AGE AGE =
F/ 9T]C\RSE IS #AE.H4
                99 99 99
  ,! RESULTS ( ^! ATTITUDES >E
PREDICTA#4 ,! ,*N'S ,DEF5SE ,FUND
REPORTS T #B1GJJ TE5S A "D 2COME
PREGNANT1 MO/ UN9T5;N,Y4 ,3TR>Y 6POPUL>
OP9ION1 PREGNANT TE5S >E N J ! POOR OR
URBAN GIRLS2 #FA P]C5T ( ALL TE5 "MS >E
:ITE4 ,3TRACEPTIVES >E US$ 0ONLY #BC
P]C5T ( TE5S FIFTE5 & "U1 ! F/ MON? !Y H
SEX4 ,AF A YE> ( SEXUAL ACTIV;Y1 #DB
P]C5T DID N USE 3TRACEPTIVES4 ,(! "O
MILLION UNW$ GIRLS :O 2COME PREGNANT EA*
YE>1 ALM HALF ( !M T]M9ATE _!
PREGNANCIES "? ABOR;N4
  ,:5 ,I CITE ^! F9D+S AB TE5AGE SEXUAL
PROMISCU;Y1 ,*RI/IAN P>5TS W (T5 REM9D
ME T ? K9D ( 9=M,N APPLIES ONLY 6KIDS F
UN-*UR*$ HOMES4 8,?ANK ! ,"L1 \R KIDS
>5'T L T10 !Y SAY4 ,WELL1 Z KIDS RESPOND
^! "DS1 8,NO WAY60 ,AC 6Y\? EXP]T ,JO%
,MC,D[ELL & SEP>ATE POLLS 0,GEORGE
,GALLUP ,JR4 &! ,PRESBYT]IAN ,*UR*1 *UR*
KIDS >E ONLY SLI<TLY 2H _! SECUL>
C.T]"PS 9 T]MS ( _! SEXUAL ACTIV;Y4 ,AC
6,MC,D[ELL'S EXT5SIVE SURVEY ( *UR*$
Y\?1 #DJ P]C5T H _H SEXUAL 9T]C\RSE 0AGE
EI<TE54 ,0AGE ?IRTE51 #BJ P]C5T (! *UR*$
Y\? _H "PICIPAT$ 9 "S =M ( SEXUAL
EXP]I;T,N4
  ,WE C NO L;G] ASSUME T J 2C WE TAKE \R
KIDS 6*UR* & S5D !M 6_! Y\? GR\PS T !Y W
PO/P"O SEXUAL ACTIV;Y4 ,AC 6PRACTIC,Y E
RELIA# 9DICATOR1 IF Y H A SIXTE5-YE>-OLD
Y C 2 R1SONABLY SURE T HE OR %E HAS
5GAG$ 9 "S =M ( SEXUAL ACTIV;Y4 ,Y C 2
ABSOLUTELY C]TA9 T YR TE5 HAS BE5
REGUL>LY TEMPT$ &1 9 "S CASES1 PRESSUR$
65GAGE 9 9APPROPRIATE SEXUAL 2HAVIOR4

    ,:OM 6,BLAME
  ,ALL Y H 6D IS OP5 YR EYES & LOOK AT !
CULTURAL L&SCAPE IF Y WANT 6"U/& :Y YR
TE5AG] MAY H PRO#MS ) REMA9+ A VIRG94
,PRACTIC,Y E PRODUCT AIM$ AT ! TE5 M>KET
--CLO!S1 %OES1 C&Y1 GUM1 SODA POP1 BE]1
MUSIC1 MAKEUP1 EV5 DEODORANT--IS PROMOT$
H1VILY ) /R;G SEXUAL 9NU5DO4 ,H Y WAT*$
M* PRIME "T TELEVI.N LATELY8 ,LA/ YE> !
BIG !ME = E SITCOM & DRAMA 0 8"T 6QUIT
2+ A VIRG940 ,? 0 ) TE5 "*S L ,DOOGIE
,H[S]6 ,EA* %[ \TDID XF TRY+ 6MAKE X
SEEM 8M1N+;L0 OR ! RESULT ( M* MORAL
9TROSPEC;N4 ,B ! MESSAGE 0 ALW ! SAME3
8,SEX IS OKAY :5 Y'RE A TE5AG] Z L;G Z Y
PRACTICE SAFE SEX & ?9K HI<LY ( YR
"PN]40 ,& IF YR KIDS >5'T Q SURE H[ 6G
AB 8DO+ X10 !Y C WALK 96A CORN] /ORE &
BUY PORNOGRAPHY2 OR EASI] /1 ATT5D ANY
;,R-RAT$ MOVIE T 3TA9S ]OTIC SC5ES ( M5
& WOM5 MAK+ LOVE4
  ,AT L1/ ! ADV]TIS]S >E "S:AT SUBTLE 9
_! USE ( SEX 6SELL %OES 6KIDS4 ,! MUSIC
9DU/RY IS S BLATANT T X'S ALM EMB>RASS+
6R1D ! LYRICS ( POPUL> S;GS4 ,D Y H ANY
IDEA :AT HAPP5S 6! ALR REVV$-UP HORM"OS
(A F\RTE5-YE>-OLD :5 %E HE>S ! ^WS1 8,I
WANNA SEX Y UP10 OV] & OV] AG 9 H]
E>PH"OS4 ,B T'S :AT ,COLOR ,ME ,BADD1
EXTREMELY POPUL> ) TE5 & PRETE5 GIRLS1

S+S 6YR DAU<T]4 ,& ^? LYRICS >E TAME
-P>$ 6! (F]+S F O!R GR\PS6
  ,B MUSIC1 MOVIES1 & ADV]TIS+ >E ! EASY
T>GETS4 ,= _M ( U !Y 2COME ! SCAPEGOAT--
ALM AN EXCUSE = LETT+ \R KIDS D ?+S T WE
"K >E WR;G4 ,S LET'S LOOK AT ANO!R
FACTOR T MAY 2 S5D+ \R KIDS ! MESSAGE T
TE5 PREM>ITAL SEX IS OKAY4 ,P>5TS1 ,I "K
T S.DS H>%1 B 2F Y TAKE ISSUE ) ME1 ASK
YRF ? "Q3 ,:5 0 ! LA/ "T ,I SAT D[N &
TALK$ ) MY *N AB SEX8
  ,NUM]\S TE5S H TOLD ME T !Y N"E LE>N$
ANY?+ AB SEX F _! P>5TS4 ,! VA/ MAJOR;Y
( TE5S GET _! 9=M,N AB SEX F _! PE]S
7TALK AB ! BL L1D+ ! BL674 ,T'S :Y #IC
P]C5T (! N,N'S HI< S*OOLS (F] "S =M (
SEX $UC,N4 ,!Y HAVE TO1 2C NO "O ELSE IS
DO+ X4 ,N P>5TS1 N ! *UR*1 NO "O6
  ,3SID] ? SC5>IO3 ,?IRTE5-YE>-OLD
,JULIE W5T 6A "PY AT A FR'S H\SE4 ,X 0
*AP]ON$ 0H] FR'S P>5TS1 & NO ALCOHOL 0
S]V$4 ,TOM1 A BOY :OM ,JULIE LIK$1 SAT
NEXT 6H] ALL EV5+ & EV5TU,Y PUT 8 >M >.D
H]4 ,LAT]1 !Y ALL WAT*$ A MOVIE1
,PORKY'S1 & 9 ! D>K5$ ROOM1 ,TOM SLIPP$
8 H& ON 6,JULIE'S BR1/4 ,%E WANT$ 6PU% X
AWAY B DECID$ N TO4 ,T'S Z F> Z ANY?+
W5T1 B ,JULIE FELT PRETTY BAD & 3FUS$ AT
! SAME "T4 ,AT A SLEEP-OV] ! NEXT
WEEK5D1 %E TALK$ AB X ) H] FR ,TAMMY4
,:5 %E DESCRIB$ :AT _H HAPP5$1 ,TAMMY
RESPOND$1 8,COOL1 T M/ H BE5 GRT60 ,:5
,JULIE ADMITT$ T %E FELT K9D ( GUILTY AB
LETT+ ,TOM T\* H] T WAY1 ,TAMMY J LAU<$
& SD1 8,WAIT UNTIL HE GETS "U YR BRA4 ,Y
WON'T FEEL S BAD !N60
  ,H[ M* BETT] X WD H BE5 IF ,JULIE _H
BE5 A# 6G & %>E H] 3FU.N ) H] "M4 ,B
,MOM 0 ALW TOO BUSY 6TALK DUR+ ! "D &
TOO TIR$ 6LI/5 AT NI<T4 ,S ,JULIE'S
VALUES AB H] [N SEXUAL;Y >E 2+ %AP$ 0H]
?IRTE5-YE>-OLD FR :O HAS ALR MADE UP H]
M9D T SEX IS COOL4
  ,SURE1 WE LIVE 9 A "D :5 SEX HAS BE5
DEVALU$ 0\R CULTURE4 ,& ,I AGREE T X'S
H>D 6RAISE *A/E KIDS :5 S M* ( POPUL>
M$IA 5C\RAGE "Y P 62COME SEXU,Y ACTIVE4
,B T DOESN'T M1N T WE %D ABDICATE \R
RESPONSIBIL;Y Z P>5TS4 ,! BE/ SEX $UC,N
IS T : O3URS 9 ! HOME4 ,RE$ ,L>S51
PROFESSOR ( HUMAN DEVELOP;T AT !
,UNIV]S;Y ( ,ILL9OIS1 PO9TS \1 H["E1 T 9
! P]IOD 2T AGES T5 & FIFTE51 ! AM.T ( "T
T "Y P SP5D ) _! FAMILIES DECR1SES
0HALF4 ,T'S ! "T :5 WE "\ 62 SP5D+ M "T
9/ILL+ MORAL VALUES 9 \R *N4

    ,HELP+ ,YR ,TE5 ,/AY ,*A/E
  ,"S"O ONCE TOLD ME T SEX ON ! F/ DATE
= TD'S TE5 IS ! EQUIVAL5T 6GETT+ A KISS
ON ! F/ DATE :5 ,I 0 A TE54 ,I DON'T "K
IF X'S RE,Y T BAD1 B ALL ! 9DICATORS
SU7E/ T KIDS >E HAV+ SEX E>LI] & M
FREQU5TLY ?AN "E 2F4 ,! _W T YR SONS OR
DAU<T]S LIVE 9 EXPECTS !M 62COME SEXU,Y
ACTIVE :ILE / 9 _! TE5S4 ,:AT C Y D AB
X8
  ,Y C 2G9 0TALK+ AB SEX FRANKLY &
H"O/LY4 ,T S.DS EASY1 B IF Y H N TALK$ )
YR * AB SEX :5 %E 0 F\R OR FIVE1 Y W F9D
T X'S EV5 H>D] 6TALK AB X )A TE5AG]4 ,B
TALK Y M/4 ,YR TE5 NE$S 6"K T X'S OKAY =
HM 6TALK ) Y AB SEX4 ,IF HE ?9KS Y C'T
H&LE X1 HE W RELY ON :AT HE'S LE>N+ 9 !
LOCK] ROOM4 ,I W G S F> Z 6SAY IF Y D N
TALK H"O/LY ) YR TE5 AB SEX1 Y C ALM 2
C]TA9 T YR SON OR DAU<T] W 2 M LIKELY
65GAGE 9 SEXUAL 9T]C\RSE 2F M>RIAGE &
:ILE / A TE5 LIV+ AT HOME4 ,C.T ON X6
  ,DON'T J TALK AB SEX2 LI/54 ,ASK
DIRECT "QS3 ,IS ,TOM PUTT+ PRESSURE ON Y
6H SEX8 ,D Y ?9K T ,T9A IS TRY+ 6TELL Y
"S?+ :5 %E DRESSES ! WAY T %E DOES8 ,ASK
HM H[ HE D1LS ) 8 [N DESIRES4 ,ASK H] IF
%E "E WORRIES AB :E!R OR N H] BOYFR MAY
H _H SEX ) O!RS4 ,DON'T ASSUME T YR *
"KS "EY?+ AB SEX4 ,EV5 ?\< ANATOMIC,Y
MATURE 5 65GAGE 9 9T]C\RSE1 YR TE5AG]
MAY N RE,Y "K H[ A WOMAN 2COMES PREGNANT
OR H[ V5]1L 41SE IS SPR1D4 ,Y WDN'T
2LIEVE "S (! MY?S SURR.D+ ^! ISSUES3 ,Y
C'T GET PREGNANT IF Y 8D X0 /&+ UP2
PLA/IC WRAP MAKES A GD 3DOM SUB/ITUTE2
V5]1L 41SE W N SPR1D "? ORAL SEX2
)DRAWAL 2F EJACUL,N IS A FOOLPRO( =M (
BIR? 3TROL4
  ,AT F/ YR TE5 W SEEM EMB>RASS$ 6TALK )
Y AB ^! ?+S1 ESPECI,Y IF Y H N MADE SEX
A "P ( IN-HOME $UC,N F AN E>LY AGE4 ,B

ONCE HE TRU/S Y--SEES T Y >5'T FAZ$ 0"S
(! SLANG EXPRES.NS = ANATOMY--YR "Y
P]SON W OP5 UP REM>KABLY4 ,:O WDN'T8
,SEX IS A GRT SUBJECT2 WOND];LLY 9T]E/+4
,MO/ TE5S WD GIVE ANY?+ 62 A# 64CUSS X
FREELY ) _! P>5TS4 ,Z Y TALK ) YR TE5 AB
SEX1 ALW EMPHASIZE ! IMPORT.E ( SAV+
SEXUAL 9T]C\RSE = M>RIAGE4 ,HE W EXPECT
Y 6SAY ?1 B SAY X ANYWAY4 ,HE NE$S 6HE>
X1 62 REASSUR$ T "S"O 9 ? _W 2LIEVES 9
PREM>ITAL *A/;Y4
  ,TE5S LIVE )! IMPRES.N T "EYBODY'S DO+
X & NOBODY C>ES4 ,T MAY EV5 F"R5 !M1 S
YR G5TLE REM9D] MAY GIVE !M ! W 6FI<T !
TR5D4 ,Y MAY WANT 6MAKE A COV5ANT ) !M4
8,IF Y PROMISE 6SAVE SEX = M>RIAGE4 ,I
PROMISE 6ANSW] ANY "Q Y H AB SEX ANY"T40
OR "S?+ L T4 ,GET YR TE5AG] 6%>E Z "P (A
T1M--,MOM1 ,DAD1 & ME--ALL AIM+ =! SAME
WOR?Y GOAL4
  ,I DON'T ?9K T X'S H1L?Y OR HELP;L
6IMPOSE A LAUNDRY LI/ ( RULES ON TE5S1 B
,I 2LIEVE T WE D \R KIDS A 4S]VICE IF WE
DON'T GUIDE !M 962HAVIOR PATT]NS T W
HELP !M REMA9 *A/E4 ,"S"TS1 A RULE GIVES
A TE5 A FACE-SAV+ EXCUSE = N GO+ AL;G )!
CR[D4 ,A DAU<T] :O MAY 2 WORRI$ AB GIV+
9 6PRESSURE F A BOYFR W APPRECIATE 2+ A#
6SAY1 8,I C'T -E OV] 6YR H\SE :ILE YR
FOLKS >5'T HOME4 ,MY P>5TS WON'T LET
ME40
  ,I RECOMM5D A FEW WELL-DEF9$ RULES
REG>D+ PLACES 6G & ACTIVITIES = DAT+
TE5S4 ,= EXAMPLE1 A TE5 %D N 2 ALL[$ 62
AL"O 9 A HOME )A GIRLFR OR BOYFR4 ,S _M
(! SEXU,Y ACTIVE KIDS ,I TALK 6SAY T !Y
FREQU5TLY H SEX 9 _! [N HOMES4 ,? IS MO/
PREVAL5T 9 S+LE-P>5T HOMES ": "!'S A LAG
"T ( TWO 6?REE H\RS 2T ! 5D ( S*OOL &!
"T T ! P>5T GETS HOME F "W4 ,I AL ?9K T
X'S WISE 65C\RAGE D\#-DAT+ & 6SET
CURFEWS4 ,I "K T RULES REG>D+ CLO?+ SEEM
P>O*IAL 6"S 7& !Y >E H>D 65=CE71 B P>5TS
( TE5AGE GIRLS WD 2 WISE 6TRY 6LIMIT
EXTREMELY REV1L+ BA?+ SUITS & O!R CLO!S
T MI<T ATTRACT UNDUE ATT5;N F ! GUYS4 ,I
D N BUY ! >GU;T T A GIRL WE>+ A TI<T
DRESS IS 8ASK+ = X10 B ,I D "K T "S GUYS
NE$ LL 5C\RAGE;T4 ,BETT] 6]R ON ! SIDE (
MODE/Y4
  ,! TOPIC ( SEX GIVES U S* A WOND];L
OPPORTUN;Y 6TALK 6\R KIDS AB ,GOD1 & ?1
TOO1 C HELP !M DEVELOP PROP] VALUES &
ATTITUDES4 ,DID Y NOTICE H[ _M LRS AT !
2G9N+ ( ? *APT] M5;N$ EXACT NUMB]S
REG>D+ SEXUAL 9T]C\RSE8 ,! WRIT]S _H
KEPT A RECORD ( EA* "T !Y _H 5GAG$ 9
SEX4 ,T ONLY 3FIRMS :AT ! ,BI# T1*ES--T
"! IS "S?+ V SPECIAL AB SEX4 ,N"E TAKE !
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